Pink - bless you, not insensitive at all. I'm sure Ladybee understands that the rest of us are still just as liable to freak out as ever, and will still be looking for comfort from the lovely ladies on this thread as well - and hopefully we have enough comforting words to go round all of us. About your guy at work - maybe if you feel in retrospect you were unreasonably snappy, a brief apology and explanation that you are going through some personal stuff at the moment and have a short fuse, and it's not anything personal?
Mamap - sorry about the cramps - I'm getting them too - fingers crossed it's nothing.
Digi - I think as we learn more and more about MC, the early scans get less and less reassuring? I did go and wail at the GP yesterday, but she very nicely and reassuringly pointed out that I'd had a scan less than a week ago, and my spotting was very minor, so I didn't get my EPU re-referral 
. Instead, she told me to go and book a MW appointment, which I've done for Monday . At least if I'm still spotting and cramping by Monday, I can wail at the midwife to refer to EPU again. I agree, the days equivalent to the time of a previous MC are very very difficult.
Wombat - have had the gurgly tummy before, but not (yet) while pregnant! Sending my very best good luck for your scan tomorrow.
Velvet - you WILL get through the next few weeks. Somehow. If DH is being a numpty and laughing at you crying, come and cry here instead. I can't promise you will remain sane the next few weeks, but you WILL be able to pick yourself up and return to sanity somehow, whatever happens. About the brown goo, I personally am getting very little (but that is failing to reassure me because that was like last time), not enough to need panty liner anyway. I wonder if we should pop to the grad thread and ask the established updiffed people what their experiences were?
Ladybee - hope you are doing okay today. xx