Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 12)

[KnitterNotTwitter]

A safe place for everyone on the TTC after MC rollercoaster. Welcome and come in - virtual wine and chocolate for all, and lots of support and hand-holding until you get your BFP!

The thread moves fast but don't let that put you off - feel free to come along and stay to chat; or dip in and out with any questions.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

For reference here's a link back to the previous thread

Latest stats to follow in a moment!

oh and don't count cd1 until you get proper red flow. That's from FF too, not just izzy's made-up mental ttc rules!

on st or wipe??

or doesn't matter

sorry pressed post too soon

umm...just on wiping doesn't count. Has to be "flow" ie so you couldn't get away without st/tampon.

The school where I am just works so well with where I live and DS school (for sept) it would be such a pain to move. Although the stress this year isn't good for family life I must say. I suppose there's no harm in looking... Seriously, why does it have to be so complicated?

mouse if you're worried about it might be worth doing a post in the legal bit and seeing what responses you get.

izzy thank you. i'm positive it is coming i just keep coming up with excuses as it's 2 days early on an already short cycle.

I'm going to have to say goodnight, dh is snatching the laptop to do some stuff. hope everyone has a fab weekend.

Thanks cep. I'd fight all the way - the nut are a feisty bunch. ;-) x

Legal are good. I'd recommend starting a thread over there mouse and making sure of your rights. Your boss sounds like a right arse. So sorry you have to deal with that on top of the loss as well. Hugs x

mouse your boss is an arsehole!!! Please, please give them this leaflet from the miscarriage association to remind them of their legal responsibilities to you and hopefully make them a bit more sympathetic to you and any other women who may find themselves in the same boat in the future.

www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/ma2006/downloads/Miscarriage%20and%20the%20workplace.pdf

or PM their email - and I will send it for you!

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Izz Yep, I have PO lots of S's, but now that I found that page on FF with the stats for early testing its kind of put a dampner on it. Still, I do have an enormous stash, so can afford to waste a few...

knitter I have just started up with a new counsellor myself, cant believe how much this last year has affected me and my relationship with DH. They dont have specialist mc ones over here though but the lady does seem nice.

YRMOTB if only peeing more would increase the chances!

Mouse your boss is a bitch. Hope you get it sorted, just for her I'll treatment of you I would sign off for a month! How do peeps get away with that? Do you have h r you can speak to? ((hugs)) well done for being brave given your heartache xx

Boo to your boss mouse. Am glad you're getting such good support from yr GP.

Right then emoo and mummya let's have a BFN festival until AF arrives. I promise to be more sensible next month

Think AF might be on her way actually, went to the theatre tonight and cried my eyes out at the end while everyone else was clapping and whistling!

Morning everyone, I'm up early for some reason bless him

Cep sorry you were here on your own, seems like you had plenty of company later tho. Could it be implantation? Oh, I do hope so
Wishin welcome. Did you drink and have you POAS yet?!
Mouse I'm so glad you have a good dr and signed you off. I am so at your stupid effing boss. I agree with Izzy about time off, do whatever you need to get through this. Don't worry at all about 'me' posts, we all do it [very guilty emoticon] especially me. Glad you have the NUT, I know from friends they won't take any prisoners. You're doing so well in an already difficult time
Izzy I think it makes sense with poas, good to have a rule. It's worth a try with dr, is it too expensive to go private for peace of mind if not? Seems like a good plan from her too if you can stick to it. Easier said than done I know! Pink didn't temp last month I seem to remember....
Mummya I can't remember stats to know your CD, but I'm willing you to be able post saying BFP
Hadrian I don't want to get haddocked for this but being emotional is pg symptom too fx the witch stays away

I'm enjoying the break, I do love Cardiff I'm treating myself to a facial and manicure, something I never do. I have averaged the 2 measurements from the scan and worked out I'm 9 weeks today, fx I can get hold of midwife soon to be booked in. Think I'll feel better when I have a date to count down to. Still taking a day at a time. Positive But Cautious :)

Morning All, well heavier again this morning but still not as heavy as ususal. have changed to cd1 cause i think it is i just think it's got new beginnings.

orange so glad you're enjoying your trip away. ooh enjoy the facial and manicure.

WARNING MEMEME BIT.....AGAIN and off topic abit/lot sorry. i am sooo angry at dh this morning, as i'm getting up to come and do ds's breakfast i ask where he's put the laptop, oh can you leave it there i want it when i wake up....well surely i can use it while you're sleeping, and then you have it when you wake up. Good grief suddenly shouting at me about spending all my life on mn and i should get a life, and i don't get to do anything else around the house. hello i can hardly move at the moment, can hardly bend down never mind throw a vac around. As af is here i've taken the prescribed naprosyn tablet which i can't if there's any chance of being pg. What gets me is that this is from the guy who's doing the house but hasn't actually done anything on the house for ages, (hasn't even put a nail in the wall for me to hang a calendar on) he got some new toys for the garage and has been playing out there for the last few weeks. He moaned like hell on thursday when i asked him to put ds to bed and follow the routine doing so. he is such a selfish arse. ok i feel better....abit

ok the stats sorry if i got anyone wrong my first proper attempt.

SATURDAYS LIST

BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26 WTF cycle CD42?
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD35
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP!
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD33
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD32
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD31
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD25
Chloe55 TTC #2,cycle5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD22
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD21
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD15
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD12
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD 10
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD9
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD8
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD8
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle6 UCL35-38,CD6
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD5
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 CD1

WTTC
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Dec 2010

MIA
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

RECENT BFP's
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Sorry I wasn't around yesterday people :) V busy at work - I'm a corporate tax accountant and we had to get all the tax returns completed yesterday as they need to arrive by Monday, so it was a bit of a manic day.

However, I'm now going to have a zen weekend and although my test date isn't until Monday, the ClearBlue test went up from 1-2 to 2-3 this morning, so I'm hoping that's an indicator that the hcg is rising and that it's therefore not just a chemical pg. So I've moved my self to recent bfps.

SATURDAY?S LIST

BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26 WTF cycle CD42?
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD35
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD33
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD32
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD31
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD26
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL24-28 CD23
Chloe55 TTC #2,cycle5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD22
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD21
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD15
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD14
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD 10
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD9
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD8
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD8
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle6 UCL35-38,CD6
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD5

WTTC
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Dec 2010

MIA
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

RECENT BFP's
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

sorry cep x posted :) Rant away about DH all you like! DH's can be useless...

dachs oh that's great, so pleased for you. and thankyou It just gets to me cause i'm not allowed to talk to him too much, i use to many words and use up my quota apparently. (something from the men are from mars etc book i mistakenly told him about that he nows uses back at me.) I don't want to phone my parents up even more than i already do cause then i just annoy them by being on the phone every 5 mins. and now he's moaning that i'm talking to you lovely ladies. Well who the hell am i supposed to talk to then?

Sorry starting again. not a good day for him to start an argument really is it on cd1.

SATURDAY?S LIST

BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26 WTF cycle CD42?
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD35
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD33
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD32
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD31
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD26
Chloe55 TTC #2,cycle5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD22
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD21
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD15
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD14
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD 10
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD9
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD8
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD8
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle6 UCL35-38,CD6
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 5 UCL33 CD5
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 CD1

WTTC
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Dec 2010

MIA
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

RECENT BFP's
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Just noticed I've lost a cycle. Should be cycle 6 for me. Will try and do late off the PC, gotta get some beeline and head to the gym!

CEO there's nothing worse than mOrning shouting, I find. Poor you. Glad you can take the painkillers though.

dachs yey! Now step away from the CBD

yrmotb there you go.

SATURDAY?S LIST

BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26 WTF cycle CD42?
ochaye TTC#3 cycle WTF UCL 31 CD35
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, CD33
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27 CD32
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 5 ucl28, CD31
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 1 (Post AS Op)) UCL? CD26
Chloe55 TTC #2,cycle5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD22
knitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD21
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD15
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD14
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD 10
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD9
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD8
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD8
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle6 UCL35-38,CD6
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 6 UCL33 CD5
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 CD1

WTTC
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Dec 2010

MIA
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Mamafoof TTC#2, MC#1 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

RECENT BFP's
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Morning all! Hope you're all ok and hangover free this morning!

Firstly I just wanted to say to mouse I am
so so terribly sorry for your loss. It's shattering news and my heart goes out to you. I think I joined the thread just after your news but just wanted to say now that I'm sorry. Also, I completely agree with everyone else your boss is a complete arsehole. It is the last thing you need right now. Just take the time off you need, don't be made to rush back and if you need to avoid contact with her... Just send in your sick notes. If she continues to harass and pressure particulary about taking away your duties then I would ceratinly seek advice from you union and/or HR (would that be HR). It's seems like bullying/discriminating to me. Good idea to post on legal threads for advice. I have a HR friend who I'd be happy to ask anything...

But for now, I ingnore the silly cow and spend time on you.

I took my bbt this morning. 97.45. Is that high/low.....?
Or do I just have to wait and see??

I've registered with ff. I have VIP access for now to it for free (whoo). Do I need to pay for this when it runs out or is the standard ( free) version good enough ??

I like the VIP collie it's just a bit clearer and has more info on it. Tells you when it thinks you may ov and the like.

Cheers CEP for that. Hope your day gets better.

cep bless you! Dh's can be a bit useless. It's a bit insensitive of him to be like that on cd1 AND knowing how much you don't want it, but......I think that's just how they are, they just don't get it. I'm suprised you haven't got the 'are you on?' comment... I usually do I told my DH yesterday about you lovely ladies and the support I've had in the mc threads too and he just looked at me blank faced. Just didn't get mn at all! I'm sorry, you've been away for 2 WEEKS and I needed someone to TALK to!!! There, I feel better too now!!

yrmotb thanks hon and if not i have the rest of the bottle of wine, some cans of cider and lots of other booze in the house. That's ease the pain.

collie Thanks, i just don't get him, he can be lovely, he just gets so busy and stressed i don't see that nice side much anymore. I should have asked him if he was on i think. the stupid thing is ds and i came down at 7:30 it's now 9:11 he's still not awake, so why shouldn't i have taken the laptop.

It's like he keeps saying that our 2.5 yr is evil and is going to end up in jail by the time he's 16. he's 2.5 how the hell can he say he's evil??? he's just rambunctious (spelt right??) and i'm trying to deal with that tick charts etc. But what i think's worse is that he says these things in front of ds cause "he can't understand me" well one day he will and you'll be so used to saying them you won't stop.

SORRY SORRY starting again.