Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 12)

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A safe place for everyone on the TTC after MC rollercoaster. Welcome and come in - virtual wine and chocolate for all, and lots of support and hand-holding until you get your BFP!

The thread moves fast but don't let that put you off - feel free to come along and stay to chat; or dip in and out with any questions.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

For reference here's a link back to the previous thread

Latest stats to follow in a moment!

hiya mamap how are you doing?

Just a quick hug for Izzy .....remember the oracle said we're all getting BFp's by March! and she knows her stuff

all good thanks cep too much to do but getting there on all fronts How are you chiccadee?

not too bad, as neurotic as ever. still watching ff and hoping dh can perform when he needs to. You still travelling lots?

hee hee... there are ways to secure dhs performance... you just gotta work your inner sex goddess no time for travelling at the mo, boo! Am planning to pop to spain in June, to see some friends and family and already getting excited about a trip to the caribbean next year to see my god mum, hopefully with a rug rat in tow

Hi ladies, just checking back in to say hello. Today was a better day than yesterday so hopefully it'll keep improving. Our cremation date is the 2nd of march so I just need to stay calm until then.

The meeting was to discuss the impact my management role is having it was quite calm but I do feel that all the trauma this year hadn't been taken into consideration. The deputy is helping out with some of my workload so it's a much improved picture.

Right, that's the end of the mousebacon misery show! Now feck of bleeding and let me ttc again, 3rd times a charm, that's what they say eh?!

Hope you're ok izzy (((hugs)))

I have been chanting izzyeyore to myself. It is quite comforting. I get sick of trying to be positive sometimes. I say have a good wallow Izzy. When I was about 17 (and had nothing really to get depressed about!!) a friend and I used to dress all in black, pull shut all curtains, turn on suitably depressing music (Korn I think was the main choice) and just lay there for hours!!! I really feel like doing that again sometimes!
I feel like this TTC stuff is on loop in my head and I am thoroughly sick of it. I need to clear that space for other stuff and it is cluttering up valuable (and limited) space. Sorry random rant over!!!

Quiet night indeed!

Glad they are helping out with your workload mouse

Waves and ((hugs)) to Izzy

Getting more and more freaked about EPU scan tomorrow and them finding something awful. DH keeps telling me not to worry, but I'm terrified of going back into the scan room and finding out something else unpleasant. Normally I'm sane and can keep things under control, but I'm already pacing the room, ridiculous....

Big waves to all you SMEGgers! Hope to be able to join soon

mouse I'm glad the meeting was ok. I hope you are feeling ok about the cremation. It's a difficult one and I'm sure you will go through a myriad of different emotions before 2 March, but you will get through it x

Thanks for the hugs all, I'm wallowing freely tonight but promise to give myself an almighty kick up the backside tomorrow

Good luck for tomorrow blackkat fanjo cam is not the nicest thing in the world but worse when you're worried they're going to tell you bad news. Hope it all goes well. I'll be thinking of you. What time is your appointment?

collie2 that is very strange! Sorry for you not being pg too but here's to next month My cycle was 34 days. I've heard it can change after a miscarriage so I suppose it could now be longer or shorter.

Sorry if this is tmi but AF has gone a bit strange - was red blood this morning, then went to brown and now there isn't anything - can this be normal?

Did cm dissolve in water or not?

Hugs for izz, will post tomorrow am, having an expensive day...

Just adding myself back into the list.

Tuesday's list -

Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD33
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD25
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD24
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD 20
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD19
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD18
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD16
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 6 UCL33 CD15
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 6 ucl28, CD11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 CD11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 CD9
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) UCL28 CD8
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD2

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Dec 2010
Blackkat#1 MC#1 Jan 2011, UCL WTF
Ninunina WTTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF UCL 28-35 days

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

ninunina sorry for your loss but welcome everyone is lovely on here.

mummya just read back and can't believe what you've been through. but here's to a BFP you definitely deserve it

hello to everyone else hope you're all doing ok

Thanks for making me feel so welcome everyone

I've surprised myself today, since I'm feeling quite up beat. I'm eager to get back into things and start trying again. I'm a bit worried that I'm not dealing things properly.

Essentially I'm in the middle of my m/c and am still bleeding and still in a bit of pain. I'm back at the EPU tomorrow, so won't go back to work, but I think I'll go in on Thursday. Is that too soon? I don't think I've ever taken 3 days sick leave before.

BlackKat good luck for the scan tommorrow, I so hope you get the all clear quickly. I think its normal to be anxious about going back to somewhere you had bad news (sorry, I know that doesnt make it any easier though)

Izzy I will join you for a wallow, sometimes all this positivity is just too much hard work!

Lilli8 Ta. Hope you didnt read too far back, I have been here since June Hope you get your BFP soon too!

BrownB 'twas me that moved you to MIA. Sorry, someone suggested list tidying and I couldnt resist Where are you in your cycle now?

Nina I found that website www.pregnancyloss.info so helpful, if you hit the "home" button on that link you can see the rest of the site, its ever so good. Glad you are feeling positive today, you might have stronger reactions later on, it does affect people in lots of different ways.

YRMOTB according to cep, eggnog sinks and turns into a blob. Cant wait to try it out

Hi Nina so sorry you are here. I returned to work the day after my ERPC (I was on a contract and lost significant pay if I didn't). For me it was good to have something normal to do to distract me and I think it took a while for all of it to hit me. I know others on here have taken weeks off. Everybody deals with things differently I suppose, so being incredibly unhelpful, I guess it is whatever works best for you but don't let yourself be pushed back into things (by yourself or others) before you are ready.

morning all, just a quickie as should be getting ds dressed for nursery.

nina i had a whole month off, i just couldn't face going back to work. i work on telephony and didn't want to have to sit there listening to people moaning. good luck for your scan today.

blackkat good luck for your scan too, hope everything is clear for you.

yrmotb yes it sinks to the bottom, tested and confirmed (however gross it sounds)

just had a big temp jump but no eggnog. hopefully not oving quite yet.

Hello to everyone.

nina I had just over a week off after my d&c. I needed to go back to work as I wanted to get back to 'normality' as quickly as possible. As I found out I'd lost my baby on 23 dec I spent the whole of xmas and new year in this awful depressing bubble and I just thought I need to sort this and get back to how I was before the miscarriage happened.

For me it was the best thing I did as everyone was so lovely to me. I was scared going in as wasn't sure how people would be and when one colleague asked me how I was feeling I did nearly cry - so don't be surprised if you feel like this!

I'm like you and also just want to get on with making another baby - I think it's the best therapy!

Go with how you feel and if you feel up to it, talk about your loss. It's the one thing that's helped me.

That's hope you get pg quickly

Morning ladies,

Project Spongebob bedroom starts today as a sruprise for my ds's birthday on Sat so will be busy busy busy!

Still no sign of AF but have been getting niggles and it's def teasing me. Please don't get your hopes up ladies, it can be very normal for Clomid to mess up cycles and mine never was much cop anyway, so, still refusing to waste more money on tests and waiting for my cheapy ones to arrive. I also picked up my Provera prescription yesterday to be started tomorrow if still no AF but doc said it can take 5 days for your AF to start after taking it! Then it's 5 days of Clomid hell so am thinking I may have to give it a miss this month as Clomid Hell will fall on my birthday You never know, I might miraculously fall pg next month without the damn stuff!

Hope everyone is out of Eeyore's Gloomy Place this morning. My internet keeps crashing and now dh is shouting for the laptop so will check in later with less of a post about me

Hey folks, Sorry for the short post yesterday. I had an unexplained patch of EWCM, and couldn't tell what it was, after dtd in the am. To my I checked. It did form a gelatinous glob(how pleasant). So, tried and tested technique that one now. I am starting to worry for my sanity...

nina I went back to work after a week, I was quite wanting to get back into it, but really it was fine. A bit teary.

Hows the Gloomy place this morning? Is it like <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=image64.webshots.com/164/2/25/86/534122586Cfqdfc_ph.jpg&imgrefurl=family.webshots.com/photo/1534122586074256231Cfqdfc&usg=__Zc0cs9Pm8T8vW9qJnWH-qaiwiF0=&h=600&w=800&sz=76&hl=en&start=0&zoom=1&tbnid=zy8ZTehBBmg5SM:&tbnh=135&tbnw=185&ei=_1RSTeaiB5GKhQfvz5XeCA&prev=/images%3Fq%3Deeyore%2Bgloomy%2Bplace%26hl%3Den%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26hs%3DHtl%26sa%3DX%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26biw%3D1024%26bih%3D551%26tbs%3Disch:1%26prmd%3Divns&itbs=1&iact=rc&dur=371&oei=_1RSTeaiB5GKhQfvz5XeCA&esq=1&page=1&ndsp=15&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:0&tx=153&ty=93" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">this?? Hugs to all three of you.

blackkat good luck for your scan later.

I dunno. It's a bit early for me to be oving? Our bodies are keeping us guessing this month, evidently!

Woah! This place has been busy!!
Well I am now back in the building, from the other side of the world if you'll have me. Hello to all the newbies over the last couple of weeks, sorry for your losses and hope you find lots of support and care here, it's a fab place to be looked after, laugh, cry, rant, be silly, whatever you feel like.

Sorry to hear that some of you have been having a really rough time of it - it's funny how it comes and goes isn't it? I had a rough time while we were in dubai on a stopover on our way down under, just very aware that when we'd planned and booked it, we'd thought that I would be 20 wks pg - for some reason it seemed to be a bit of a trigger. Being here has been kind of the same - at odd moments, I am remembering that we were planning to come here when I was pg, drove past the hospital today where I would have had the lo, very weird.

Anyway, enough of this wallowing - I will have my DC1 in that hospital, in all likelihood, just not in June. Need to pull myself together and look forward.

Sorry to be a pain but can someone please add me to the stats as I don't want to mess them up due to time difference - I'm now on cycle 1, UCL 29 or 30, CD11 - thanks!

Sorry for the me me me post when I've not been around for ages, congrats to the new bfps and (((hugs))) to everyone - we've just got internet in the last couple of days, but should be online more often now.