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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 12)

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KnitterNotTwitter · 26/01/2011 23:43

A safe place for everyone on the TTC after MC rollercoaster. Welcome and come in - virtual wine and chocolate for all, and lots of support and hand-holding until you get your BFP!

The thread moves fast but don't let that put you off - feel free to come along and stay to chat; or dip in and out with any questions.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

For reference here's a link back to the previous thread

Latest stats to follow in a moment!

OP posts:
lily06 · 04/02/2011 16:36

Grin Chloe you have me humming the tune now!

Izzy is your acupuncturist a specialist or general? I've never tried it (terrible with needles), but wonder if its worth a try - someone did say you don't see or feel the needles really.

loola2shus · 04/02/2011 16:43

Have you seen this? Wine Yum don't mind if I do!

I am off to catch up will try to post tonight.... I've had a hellish week sorry I haven't been around xx

AandRMum · 04/02/2011 16:46

Fab Wine Wine Wine right that should sort me out!! Me thinks there has been a bit of an overhaul of the site I just flipped the thread - am sure I've never seen that button before?!

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 04/02/2011 16:50

Wow loola I'm loving the Wine !!!

lily my acupuncturist specialises in fertility, she told me about 80% of her work is fertility based. She is absolutely fab and I love it (and no it doesn't hurt at all). Am a complete convert, having been very sceptical to start with! The aim for me was to get my cycles back into order after the mc and try to get into the best possible state for conception. She's also been brilliant at checking my charts and letting me know when she thinks I'm going to ov and things like that. Definitely recommended.(if you're anywhere near Bristol I'm happy to pass in details)

Anyway, cake's in the oven so I'll pass round a few glasses while we're waiting Wine Wine Wine Wine Wine x

Chloe55 · 04/02/2011 17:34

Oh my god I love Wine!

Velvetcu · 04/02/2011 18:41

WineWineWine

Grin
mousebacon · 04/02/2011 18:44

Hi ladies, just had a total freak out because I took a pg test and it was still positive. Phoned the ward but they said that was totally normal and that it might actually take another 2 or 3 weeks for my hormones to settle down. Ugh. This is what I want...

  1. bleeding to stop
  2. sore boobs and fat tummy to bugger off
  3. AF to arrive in record time
  4. body to lay a nice, juicy, VIABLE egg
  5. Have a BFP that sticks

Is that too much to ask?!

In the meantime I shall settle for lots of this... Wine

awesome!

As you were.

PinkFondantFancy · 04/02/2011 18:47

Dashes in quickly to share some of the stockpile of cakes I accidentally managed to buy at the supermarket today.

lily as aandr says I too am a complete acupuncture convert. I promise it's not actually like needles that they'd take blood with or anything - I've never actually even seen them while they're in and it doesn't hurt. The first time it was a little bit uncomfortable but I think that was mainly because I had no idea what to expect and was a bit tense! But I thought I'd give it another go and have never looked back. Where are you based? The lady I see is lovely and she's got clinics in a few places, I think Chelsea and St Albans. Maybe somewhere else too. There's a fertility acupuncture network for acupuncturists that specialise in it - hopefully there's someone in your area. Definitely worth a try.

mummya really glad the counselling went so well and that DH is on board for more sessions.

izz you might be interested to know that I was getting low on the CBFM and then suddenly went straight to peak last cycle, v. weird.

chloe which did you go for? I think first response is more sensitive but has a bit of a reputation for giving a bit of a weedy second line even if you are definitively updiffed so maybe get both so you've got a backup in case the first response is inconclusive?

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 04/02/2011 18:53

that's interesting about the cbfm. I've been doing cheapie opks as well in the afternoon, and today's had a faint second line so i think I'm gearing up to ov - will be interesting to see what the cbfm does (still going to bin it next cycle though!)

PinkFondantFancy · 04/02/2011 18:57

Oooh izz my things to make and do OPK chart I made where I stuck them all down onto a sheet of cardboard showed that when I got a faint second line it went strong v. quickly, within a day or max 2. Looking good hun!

cep · 04/02/2011 19:22

just a quicky as about to put ds to bed. I had a friend request on ff but when i click on the homepag or pm it just goes blank. isn't it supposed to show who it is??

oh and loving Wine

LILI80 · 04/02/2011 19:26

AandR I didn't really bleed much after the op just had some brown stuff (tmi) that came and went for a couple of weeks after the op.

Sign me up for the SMEP think it will give me something to focus on and knowing DH he will be more than up for DTD on a regular basis Wink

lily06 thanks for info on charting will def give it a go

Hadrian Have a fab time!

Mummyabroad really glad the counselling went well and your DH enthusiasm is such a good sign

Evening to everyone else and hope you all have a fab weekend - I'm off now got some food to eat, wine to drink and embarrassing bodies to watch! Grin

MummyAbroad · 04/02/2011 19:38

FRIDAY'S LIST

Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 5 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD28
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD25
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 6 UCL28-32 CD21
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle? UCL28-32 CD20
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 CD 16
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, CD15
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 2 postMC#2 UCL26-28, CD14
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 7 UCL 24-30 CD13
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD12
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 6 UCL33 CD11
Kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 6 ucl28, CD7
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 CD7
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 CD5
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) UCL28 CD4

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, WTF cycle
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Dec 2010

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 5 (round 3) UCL27 CD27
Owlbooty TTC#1, cycle 5
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov

Blackkat · 04/02/2011 19:54

mouse totally in agreement with your five points.

Had the same conversation with my gynae ward today. Total rubbish - thinking of you

Going to need a couple of these Wine while DH watches the bloody rugby, Cheers!

AandRMum · 04/02/2011 20:09

SMEPers

  1. AandRMum
  2. Zamster
  3. MummyA
  4. Izzy
  5. YRMOTB
  6. Velvet
  7. Collie
  8. Knitter
  9. Chloe55
10. Hadrian 11. Lili80

Hmm that only leaves around 3 in the control group!

Velvetcu · 04/02/2011 20:13

well im not opking so i guess im somewhere in the middle!

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 04/02/2011 20:25

The list looks odd these days, doesn't it? The TTC list is shorter than either the grads or the recent bfps!! Which is absolutely fantastic of course, but after so long of having a huuuuge list to shuffle every time it's updated, it just looks a bit odd! Grin

< waves to mummya aandr mouse velvet blackkat lili chloe cep yrmotb lily and all our lovely diffeders and anyone else around tonight - passes round the Wine >

Velvetcu · 04/02/2011 20:59

hi Izz I agree the list is v strange. I'm drinking beer on cd15 which means I have absolutely given up hope of ever getting off this thread. Ah well, I had to start living again at some point :)

Hope everyone is having a good Friday night - I'm enjoying the rugby Grin

Mamapower · 04/02/2011 21:08
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 04/02/2011 21:14

velvet cd13 here and I'm on the Wine. The real Wine that is, not just the virtual! we will get off the thread one day, until then no point living like a nun though!

Blackkat · 04/02/2011 21:19

First evening on the Wine, just the one tho, since mc and before that October.

The slightly hazy view of the world makes it all seem so much better.

Blackkat · 04/02/2011 21:31

scrap that, Wine Wine = even better!

time to turn off pc methinks...

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 04/02/2011 21:37

blackkat hope you're doing ok x

Blackkat · 04/02/2011 21:41

Thanks for asking Izzy first good day for 3 weeks, haven't cried once! Amazing.

DesperateWannabe · 04/02/2011 22:07

Just been lurking and found a thread in the mc section on acupunture and ttc which i though might be of interest to those talking about it....can't remember who. click here

Will post properly tomorrow, as i am Wine too!!
xx

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