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DLA wait times part 17.. (2023)

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Mummyrach13 · 26/10/2023 20:52

Following on from part 16…..

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LGR004 · 31/10/2023 13:59

@mum959 congrats sweet ❤️❤️

LGR004 · 31/10/2023 14:12

@MumofLou .. she’s good the one I got through to ! She said my claim was actually meant to go to a DM on the 10th of November but it’s gone early to them, she was mumbling some other bits and bobs but she said to call back on the 10th November .. almost another 2 weeks I could rip my own eyes out you know ..

LGR004 · 31/10/2023 14:18

@MumofLou if she wants me to call on the 10th November that makes me 20 weeks .. surely that can’t be real ? Feel so frustrated now

Vikz37 · 31/10/2023 14:19

TheRBC · 31/10/2023 13:28

Hey! Long time lurker, decided to join today.

Scan date - 27/07
First text - 02/10
Second text - 23/10

Just pulling up a chair to wait with anyone around the same date as me and wishing every single one of you on here good luck with your claim. I found the form horrendous to fill in as I’ve spent so many cheers praising my son and championing him, only to have to write down the very worst traits in that soul destroying form x

Another scan date buddy. I was told yesterday last week of November the wait is just awful just want an answer now.

Vikb3479 · 31/10/2023 14:26

So confused
Scan date 29/6
Last text 25/9

I know there's quite a few of us with those dates I rang yesterday and was told in was in the dm pile but no decision.
I rang today and was appointed to case manager over the weekend. Hang on why 2 different answers to the same question and is a dm tge same as a case manager im stressed confused and just wgat a straight forward reply . Any one able to help

Keddie · 31/10/2023 14:28

@Vikb3479 Just found this....

Case Managers are a lower grade than Decision Makers and are usually only trained to make PIP Decisions whereas a DM may have experience of other benefits and would also be responsible for making eligibility Decisions as well as entitlement ones.

Vikb3479 · 31/10/2023 14:33

Still not sure is it because I've claimed before possibly and it's updated evidence . I'm bloody useless with forms etc abd didn't do renewal forms in time so had to re apply just getting myself in a right state about it all . ( I'm also ASD so whole I applying for my daughters it triggered me )

Mummyrach13 · 31/10/2023 14:37

@LGR004 i think they tell you that to over compensate the time! When I phoned a week ago she said I would hear by end of Nov, which would have took me to 23 weeks!! Was like wow. But a lot around my date have now had decisions and when I phoned today she said mine went to a DM last Thursday. X

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Helenlogismumma · 31/10/2023 14:40

Mines also the 3/7 and with decision maker

LGR004 · 31/10/2023 14:45

@Mummyrach13 yeah I suppose so , bloke yesterday said it went to DM that morning and the lady half hour ago I spoke to said it went to a DM today .. so? I’m just frustrated with how it’s all seeming like there messing people about just be straight up honest and set standard times and dates etc! She did today big piles of assessments go to a DM at once as well that’s why they can take from 10-14 days for a decision but even so I feel like it’s a constant knock back when you call, think your one step further and you’ve gone 2 steps back .. I do think I’m genuinely not going to call now until the 10th like she said , if I hear nothing or get no back payment I’ll know it’s a decline and if I get a text or back payment I’ll know it’s been successful.. I’ve genuinely run out of mental space for allowing this to bother me .. what will be will be now x

Mummyrach13 · 31/10/2023 14:48

@LGR004 i know how you feel I didnt sleep at all last night as thought I would have a decision today either way and that’s not the case so the waiting and anxiety continues! I will try to hold out calling again and just hope for the best! We’ve all got each other here to get through it xx

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4LittleFirecrackers · 31/10/2023 14:51

Had a call today asking for info since last surgery, it’s going to the medical team for advice on DC condition, I just feel like crying. The lady was lovely but feel so worried. Scan 30th June

Kelz23 · 31/10/2023 15:10

The stress is unreal and calling them just makes anxiety worse seems such fight to get what children deserve same with ehp process All this as aged me 10 years

Raych1989 · 31/10/2023 15:32

Does anyone know how long wait is on phonecall at this time. I've only ever rung at 9am

Watso2408 · 31/10/2023 15:32

Hi, same scan dates 27/7 and exactly the same text dates as you. Hoping 4 weeks left at the most, but who knows 🤷‍♀️
good luck and let’s keep each other updated 🤞🏻x

Mrsstephens04 · 31/10/2023 15:46

TheRBC · 31/10/2023 13:28

Hey! Long time lurker, decided to join today.

Scan date - 27/07
First text - 02/10
Second text - 23/10

Just pulling up a chair to wait with anyone around the same date as me and wishing every single one of you on here good luck with your claim. I found the form horrendous to fill in as I’ve spent so many cheers praising my son and championing him, only to have to write down the very worst traits in that soul destroying form x

My scan date is 26/07 so super close hopefully we shod hear the same sort of time I had 1st text 02/10 then 2nd text 23/10. I'm such an impatient person in general I hate waiting for anything so this wait is torture and I dint hold any hopes of hearing anything next week on thr 15 weeks mark from what I've been reading from people still waiting in June, Il have more evidence to send on Thursday/Friday (EHCP) and have an app with paediatrician on the 16th Nov, I'm going to call on Monday just to ask if it's worth sending the extra evidence or if it's close to going to a DM just to find out how far away it is

Kelz23 · 31/10/2023 15:56

Same as me can you let us known when you get decision good luck x

Raych1989 · 31/10/2023 16:07

4/7 scan date
First text 12/09
Second text 02/10
17 weeks today. Currently on hold to see if any updates. They probably hate me as I've rung twice a week for last 2 weeks. The wait is driving me crazy 🤪 I'm not sure on the system as I've seen dates before and after me awarded which is making my nerves shot at. I know they prob don't have a decision but I can't rest without checking. Currently been on hold 47 mins 😴

crazytimes20 · 31/10/2023 16:08

Scan date 25/7 same scan date as the others..last test 23/10. Good luck everyone. Will update once it's nearer our time.

Courtneymxo · 31/10/2023 16:12

Anyone else on hold 😂 x

Tmxx · 31/10/2023 16:20

Raych1989 · 31/10/2023 16:07

4/7 scan date
First text 12/09
Second text 02/10
17 weeks today. Currently on hold to see if any updates. They probably hate me as I've rung twice a week for last 2 weeks. The wait is driving me crazy 🤪 I'm not sure on the system as I've seen dates before and after me awarded which is making my nerves shot at. I know they prob don't have a decision but I can't rest without checking. Currently been on hold 47 mins 😴

Let me know! Love that your calling regularly as I'm a week behind you so hoping when tiy know I just have a 7 day count down to get threw 🤣 xx

Raych1989 · 31/10/2023 16:27

🤣🤣 I'll update as soon as I'm through. Been on hold 1 hour 10 mins so far 😩

Courtneymxo · 31/10/2023 16:29

@Raych1989 50 mins so far for me🙄 I got cut off last time I rang because it went past the half 5! Think I was on hold for over and hour and half x

Goshxo · 31/10/2023 16:40

Hey everyone! First time posting been following thread for weeks now. Scan date 29/06 I’ve rang today spoke to a lovely lady she said it’s with a dm and decision should be made within a week and if I don’t hear anything by Wednesday next week to ring back. Don’t think I’ll wait that long 😂 so impatient now will give them a ring back on Friday. I did ask her to put on my file that I would like to receive a text once the decision is made. Seen few from the same date awarded and plenty still waiting. Now every time I receive a text I jump to my phone 😂 xx

busymummy555 · 31/10/2023 16:45

@Raych1989 same scan date as me!!!! im going to ring tmrw morning to see if its with a DM, good luck!!!

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