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WTF is going on here? Very painful but irregular contractions plus childcare issues

189 replies

FillyjonkisCALM · 10/02/2008 17:14

I have been getting, all sodding DAY, contractions of about 40s to a minute duration. And they are painful-sit down and swear type painful (and thats through paracetemol etc)

BUT they are irregular, around 10 - 15 minutes, but sometimes 5 minutes. If I walk or stand they are more often and more intense.

Nothing is intensifying over time, except that it is a little more painful now than this morning.

My gut instinct is that this is probably false labour-the contractions are so irregular. BUT they are SO painful, I could definately use gas and air here.

But here's the thing-my mum does really need to go home tonight, and its a 3 hour drive. She WILL stay if need be, and she WILL turn around and come back, because she is like that, but I don't want her to. She is the only one who can look after the kids really (long story).

And I have just no idea what is going on. If this is false labour, why on earth is it so painful? WTF is going on?

I know I should probably call the MLU but my experience last time was that all they are interested in is the spacing of the contractions.

Thoughts?

OP posts:
JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 22:06
T2M · 11/02/2008 22:18

Are we hitting the bottle of wine then .... can't take the waiting any more

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 22:21

Got any cider?

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 22:22

cider ! i think not ! got a bottle of cava

hunOM, only a few weeks left ! wow, that has gone quick!

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 22:24

Nice, organic cider?

T2M · 11/02/2008 22:31

HunOM will you think of us lurking on the forum when its your turn LOL

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 22:31

ok, as long as it is not the stuff you get in the offie for 50 p a litre and drink at the park with your mates !!

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 22:32

anybody up for a quick game of ludo?

T2M · 11/02/2008 22:32

I did wonder if organic meant homemade brew (in the backyard)

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 22:34

What do you take me for?

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 22:35

i should have realised that someone who could crochet a dalek would be far better than that !

not had cider for about 15 years!

T2M · 11/02/2008 22:36

Hides behind her glass of cider

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 22:39

now i have offended everyone, i shall go to bed ! sleep well, and i will be back in the morning for news x

T2M · 11/02/2008 22:40

ditto

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 22:41

Sleep well.

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 22:52

Night all! There must be something happening/happened to justify so long an absence - Filly - whatever stage you're at - we're still thinking of you (and it appears some of us may have had a bit to drink)

belgo · 12/02/2008 08:03

hope all is well Filly, whatever's happening

Buda · 12/02/2008 09:02

Hope you are OK Filly. Hoping for news soon.

Lulumama · 12/02/2008 09:03

morning !!

hope all is well with filly and fillyJNR.... looking forward to news

TooTicky · 12/02/2008 09:10

Good morning

NorthernLurker · 12/02/2008 10:31

morning all! Anybody want a bacon sandwich?
To occupy us today I suggest we embark on an embroidery of all the major events of Queen Victoria's reign - bit like the Bayeux tapestry but with crinolines. All right if I start it off? (NL threads needle and commences startling lifelike portrayal of Lord Melbourne)

hunofmonsters · 12/02/2008 11:08

wanders in with elevenses

NorthernLurker · 12/02/2008 11:22

chuck us a biscuit!

(NL rethreads needle and continues wrestling with the young Prince Albert's nose)

dizzydixies · 12/02/2008 12:41

can I join in if I bring the lunch, been lurking since start waiting on happy BA

baked spuds and filling anyone??

NorthernLurker · 12/02/2008 12:46

Welcome - can I have tuna mayo please?

(NL frowns over a tricky bit of Queen Victoria's wedding bouquet and sticks needle in own finger owwww!)