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WTF is going on here? Very painful but irregular contractions plus childcare issues

189 replies

FillyjonkisCALM · 10/02/2008 17:14

I have been getting, all sodding DAY, contractions of about 40s to a minute duration. And they are painful-sit down and swear type painful (and thats through paracetemol etc)

BUT they are irregular, around 10 - 15 minutes, but sometimes 5 minutes. If I walk or stand they are more often and more intense.

Nothing is intensifying over time, except that it is a little more painful now than this morning.

My gut instinct is that this is probably false labour-the contractions are so irregular. BUT they are SO painful, I could definately use gas and air here.

But here's the thing-my mum does really need to go home tonight, and its a 3 hour drive. She WILL stay if need be, and she WILL turn around and come back, because she is like that, but I don't want her to. She is the only one who can look after the kids really (long story).

And I have just no idea what is going on. If this is false labour, why on earth is it so painful? WTF is going on?

I know I should probably call the MLU but my experience last time was that all they are interested in is the spacing of the contractions.

Thoughts?

OP posts:
T2M · 11/02/2008 15:51

takes a sip and wonders whats going on and sends Filly a hug

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 15:58

T2M - are you going to finish that scone?

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 16:33

STILL no news?

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 16:37

no - but we've had a lovely afternoon tea - does anyone want to send out for takeaway later?

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 17:07

Hmm always fancy chinese in our house

weeonion · 11/02/2008 17:24

ok - i've been out shopping and still no news........... hmmm ... it must mean a baby is either well on its way or arrived!

weeonion · 11/02/2008 17:25

ohh - i couldnt possibly eat - too excited ( but will no doubt regret that when the takeaway arrives!)

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 17:25

can we get pizza? or a curry? i had chinese at the weekend...

c'mon filly, surely you can break away from labour/ new motherhood to update

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 17:31

Pizza sounds good.. I guess I can have chinese anytime (dh is Chinese)

must be some news soon?!?

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 18:09

I'm up for pizza! Filly - we're thinking of you and really, really hoping you're having a nap with your new baby

Littlefish · 11/02/2008 18:31
TooTicky · 11/02/2008 19:54
FrannyandZooey · 11/02/2008 20:57
Tatties · 11/02/2008 21:02
Tatties · 11/02/2008 21:03

LOL that we have got to 90 posts without knowing what is going on!

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 21:28

did I smell Pizza?

Any news?

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 21:33

well, no news is good news and all that?

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 21:34

did we get any ice cream with the pizza?

hunofmonsters · 11/02/2008 21:35

still no news?!

hunofmonsters · 11/02/2008 21:35

What, together? in teh same bowl??

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 21:38

No! Course not - I have some standards!

I'll just it eat from the tub

hunofmonsters · 11/02/2008 21:39

oh thats alright then!

(and saves washing up too )

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 21:50

Of course, she mightn't post for days yet....

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 22:02

Hope she does I am supposed to be on a diet - all this food is not going to go down well next time I weigh in!!

hunofmonsters · 11/02/2008 22:05

its virtual food, you will be fine

Or you could give it me and i will eat it (am 35 weeks!)