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WTF is going on here? Very painful but irregular contractions plus childcare issues

189 replies

FillyjonkisCALM · 10/02/2008 17:14

I have been getting, all sodding DAY, contractions of about 40s to a minute duration. And they are painful-sit down and swear type painful (and thats through paracetemol etc)

BUT they are irregular, around 10 - 15 minutes, but sometimes 5 minutes. If I walk or stand they are more often and more intense.

Nothing is intensifying over time, except that it is a little more painful now than this morning.

My gut instinct is that this is probably false labour-the contractions are so irregular. BUT they are SO painful, I could definately use gas and air here.

But here's the thing-my mum does really need to go home tonight, and its a 3 hour drive. She WILL stay if need be, and she WILL turn around and come back, because she is like that, but I don't want her to. She is the only one who can look after the kids really (long story).

And I have just no idea what is going on. If this is false labour, why on earth is it so painful? WTF is going on?

I know I should probably call the MLU but my experience last time was that all they are interested in is the spacing of the contractions.

Thoughts?

OP posts:
TooTicky · 10/02/2008 23:19

I'm off too. Sleep well
See you around...

FrannyandZooey · 11/02/2008 08:02

I didn't know there was a THREAD
I thought she had just emailed you, TooT
ooh we need news

belgo · 11/02/2008 08:15

hope all is going well filly

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 09:06

Well, I did sleep, but what did I dream about? Preparing the house so that Filly could come here with the baby. Red and black striped socks featured prominently

Tatties · 11/02/2008 09:30

Just checking in to see if there's any news...

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 10:03

hope filly is holding her little one

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 10:45

(sticks head in through door with hopeful espression and then retreats whistling encouraging tunes)

Sorry Lulumama - I posted right before going to bed! I'm fine thanks for asking - except for B and sleep - not awful, awful but not great either.

weeonion · 11/02/2008 12:14

pops by to see if there is any news....

TooTicky · 11/02/2008 13:04
T2M · 11/02/2008 14:01

pops in and waves

hunofmonsters · 11/02/2008 14:05

oooh i read this last night and expected it to be huge by now...no news??

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 14:17

well she must be doing something birthwise or she would have been back by now.......go,filly,go

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 15:08

it must be birthy / baby silence or filly would have been back by now!

how gloriously exciting

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 15:14

can I have jam and cream on my scone?

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 15:16

No news yet? - should I put the kettle on would you like tea with your scones?

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 15:17

Have you got any Earl Grey?

Lulumama · 11/02/2008 15:18

save a scone for filly

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 15:19

Earl Grey
Russian Caravan
Assam
English breakfast
you choose

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 15:21

Earl Grey with scones definately. Somebody chuck me a knifr for the jam.

Come on Filly - or all the scones will be gone

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 15:23

milk anyone?

NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 15:25

no milk for me thanks

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 15:30

anyone else?

T2M · 11/02/2008 15:38

May I join you all, milk no sugar and the biggest scone thanks

JingleyJen · 11/02/2008 15:40
NorthernLurker · 11/02/2008 15:40

OY! T2M - I had my eye on that one - was just being polite and pausing, grrrrrrrrrrrh!

Oh go on then you have it (grudging smile)