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Are you seeing what’s going on in the Huntingdon threads

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sunshinemango · 02/11/2025 15:52

How fast they went from blaming the ‘boats' to just outright racism against Black people. I’m now genuinely done on this site.

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wordler · 02/11/2025 18:55

So I think some posters haven’t realized which topic section they are in. I came here from the ‘trending’ panel - I didn’t realize it was Black Mumsnetters section.

I suspect you will get a few posters missing the nuance of the topic.

noelignatiev · 02/11/2025 18:55

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irogolem · 02/11/2025 18:56

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What in the actual fuck.

Your assertion that you’re the first has been debunked! Read more.

LadyKenya · 02/11/2025 18:57

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I don't know what you are hoping to achieve with your posts, but you are doing yourself a disservice. This thread was started by a Black Women in distress about what is happening, and the knock on effect it is having on her. She is not alone. You are not even helping other BW on this thread, I highly doubt.

LadyKenya · 02/11/2025 18:58

Someone is trying very hard to derail the thread, how sad.

irogolem · 02/11/2025 18:59

MrsSkylerWhite · 02/11/2025 18:55

The levels of racism in the UK today are the worst I’ve seen since the 1960s and it’s horrible. I was trying to get across that most people don’ t feel that way. Clumsily, maybe.

Stop apologising to a racist person fgs

noelignatiev · 02/11/2025 19:00

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purpleygrey · 02/11/2025 19:02

Fucking disgusting comments on other threads.

im white, and appalled by the sheer amount of racism on this site and others. It seems like we’re going backwards as a society. I’m sorry many of you are treated this way.

I don’t know what the answer is to becoming a kind, inclusive place but I pray it happens soon.

kittywittyandpretty · 02/11/2025 19:03

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/11/2025 18:39

I’m white. There is an argument for saying yes support, but you don’t need to talk about it on Black MNers, a space for Black MNers to share. If a lack of thanks stops you supporting, you weren’t supporting anyway.

It’s the difference between Nice Guys who wear ‘this is what a feminist looks like t-shirts’ to mansplain, and genuinely good men who step up and expect nothing.

Be the second and understand that if you were raised here you had racism all around you and will need to do the work until you die. You’re never done with reading, listening and trying to understand. I know I’m thick as mince about it 90% of the time. And I’ve been an immigrant more than once. Which gives a tiny tiny glimpse into just one aspect of it.

There’s no argument for not vocalising support.

How would I know that one was supported if not vocalised ?
I too have been an immigrant. It wasn’t fun, and I ended up returning to my country of origin partly because of it. But frankly, I would take any support I could get at the time. From which ever quarters it came from.

irogolem · 02/11/2025 19:03

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Certainly I would imagine that 99% of people in general are better than you.

MrsSkylerWhite · 02/11/2025 19:04

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I have yellow hair and pale skin. One line of my ancestors were black Jamaicans. I don’t pity you or feel superior? I just don’t like people make assumptions about people based on the colour of their skin, religion, sexuality, whatever. That’s all I was trying to get across.

Again, I’m sorry that I offended you.

LadyKenya · 02/11/2025 19:07

kittywittyandpretty · 02/11/2025 19:03

There’s no argument for not vocalising support.

How would I know that one was supported if not vocalised ?
I too have been an immigrant. It wasn’t fun, and I ended up returning to my country of origin partly because of it. But frankly, I would take any support I could get at the time. From which ever quarters it came from.

We need support, as you rightly have pointed out. Otherwise what hope is there? Racism must not be allowed to flourish unchecked. It harms us all, one way, or another.

foundmykey · 02/11/2025 19:09

I'm not surprised by the comments in the other threads. The mumsnetter who advocated for this space was subjected to vile abuse. I believe it made her quite unwell and Mumsnet did very little via way of support. Nothing has changed.

The Huntington threads are just another opportunity for some to be openly racist, some comment to deliberately stoke the flames of hatred. In a way, I prefer people show the truth of who they are. The mental gymnastics that they demonstrated as they pieced together a narrative that suited their agenda was predictable.

A baying mob, united by their hatred.

Justchilling07 · 02/11/2025 19:42

@foundmykey What do you mean? you prefer people to show the truth of who they are.

foundmykey · 02/11/2025 19:46

Justchilling07 · 02/11/2025 19:42

@foundmykey What do you mean? you prefer people to show the truth of who they are.

I prefer overt racism to covert racism. At least I know what I'm dealing with and can act accordingly.

Justchilling07 · 02/11/2025 19:57

@foundmykey That’s sad that you feel this way, because not everyone is racist, has your views.

Mumbletoomuch · 02/11/2025 20:04

I’ve been suspicious for a while that there’s AI/bots operating on forums, likely funded by Musk. First noticed it in the last six months, when the amount of pro-Israeli discussions went through the roof. I tell myself it’s AI, as it’s much nicer to believe that than think there’s real humans walking among us so full of hate.

I’m white British, and I stand in complete solidarity with black and brown people, British or not, on a boat or not, mental health or not. Thank you for creating this counter thread, it was good to read some sanity.

Fatsnowflake · 02/11/2025 20:06

Mixed Sudanese/egyptian/English ethnicity here. White passing but absolutely heartbroken by the racism I’m seeing out in the open. I stand in support for what it’s worth.

REDB99 · 02/11/2025 20:06

noelignatiev · 02/11/2025 18:03

Save us your crocodile tears!!!

What an odd response. I hope you’re ok hun.

UneFoisAuChalet · 02/11/2025 20:13

United by hatred.

The only time I have seen English people unite was for football. Suddenly they are united and proud to be English and flying their flags loudly. And they feel they have carte Blanche to say what they want and how they want. The media, social media have emboldened them to be openly racist.

Ooopsyididit · 02/11/2025 20:20

foundmykey · 02/11/2025 19:46

I prefer overt racism to covert racism. At least I know what I'm dealing with and can act accordingly.

100% agree with this

Justchilling07 · 02/11/2025 20:30

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MotherOfRatios · 02/11/2025 20:32

sunshinemango · 02/11/2025 15:58

They are also arguing what makes someone truly british. Doesn’t matter if we, our parents, grandparents were born here. We’re not white so not a true brit

This happened as well on the thread the other day about a school and the child was a white girl in a mainly South Asian School and they were debating what makes you English and British

Thesteinwaysyouvebeenleadingmeon · 02/11/2025 21:08

Aye the one time closet racists are out loud and proud.
They so wanted it to be terror related to further their agenda with no thought for the people caught up in a horrific incident.
I'm not a poc and I've no time for the extreme far right they will use the idiots to do the dirty work.
They're not their kind of people Farage and co only want to consort with their own kind..multi millionaires not Liam and Kyle putting Chinese made nylon flags on lamp posts.

JHound · 05/11/2025 18:14

Yep - they have stepped even pretending it’s not racism driving them.

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