just read what Boffin has said about undercarriages, agree with everything there. There is NO way I will be using moist toilet wipes. A spray bottle or used a jug at home.
I also took loads of shallow salt baths with tea tree and lavender oil and it really helped things heal and made me feel more human doing this.
I have the helios childbirth kit which has a load of homeopathic remedies that really helped me after ds. Never knew anything about them with dd. I have re-stocked to make sure I have lots of afterwards. They are just little tablets you slip under your tongue. I know some people thing the whole homeopathy thing is just silly but quite a few of these really seemed to help me so I am going to beleive in them again whether its the tablets or them just convincing my brain I feel better, who know but it works for me.
With regards nappy bag---I always keep one of those little bottles of hand anti-bac gel in there, so that if I am not near a proper changing facility(i.e out in the park/woods) my hands can still feel nice afterwards.)
Waitrose bottom butter--fab stuff!!