Due in Sept '07 - part 5 - '.... Half Way to Heaven......?'

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Hope you all don't mind about the new thread. We've been AGONISING over the name

Thanks Chatty - Look theirs me banging on about my life and how peed of i am and your taking ur time to help me and i haven't even looked at your problems. apologise for my rudeness! x

No problem it's actually nice to forget about it for a few mins and feel like i'm useful for something!

Bless. Well you are v useful hun well you have been to me! . if only we could have a glass of red wine on days like this eh!

believe me if it weren't for the thought of wasting the rest of the bottle i would have had one last night - a cigarette too if i could have found any!!!!

Chatty, just read your other thread with horror! It does sound like he is going through some sort of personal crisis at the moment. Seems like he is prone to this from what you were saying you went through when you had DS1. I agree that it would do you the world of good to get out more and meet more mums, just because they're mums doesn't mean that you'll be living a frumpy boring existence, we're great! It would also help you with networking which could ultimately result in you getting a part time job somewhere. This will definately improve your self esteem which has to have taken a knock through all this, let's face it, you're only human. Be strong (you obviously are), he'll eventually realise what a lucky man he is. I'm glad he read your thread and it made him stop and think. He sounds like he's getting carried away in some sort of unrealistic fantasy world. It's very hurtful what he said about that other girl, I do feel for you. I truly hope that everything works out for you. In the meantime, make sure you come on here for regular chats. x

OOO i wish you lived closer you sound a girl after my own heart... i actually confess i had a sneaky one the other day when partner p155ed me off yet again for being an uncaring pr4t! infact im going out this evening and may even have a glass of red usually does the trick! lol

ccpink - I'm glad you found out the information on SPD, hopefully you'll get some joy from your midwife. I was only thinking about your Mum this morning, I was going to post and ask you how she was! That's such fantastic news, I'm so happy for you

ccpink - great news about your mum - my mum was there this time last yr and had a masectomy. she's absolutely fine and it's as if it never happened xx

does your baby have a routine of when its kicking you and awake? or am i imagining its doing it similar times for past couple weeks?

O and another random question to add to it, is it normal for my boobs to b leaking alreday at 23/4 weeks?

loobybump, I think it's not uncommon for boobs to leak at this stage, I have read posts on here before about the same thing. Also, babies do apparently get into a sleep/wake routine around this stage, apparently this is the routine they will be in when they're born!! My little girl is very active between 10-11pm every night!

O Cr4p thats not good the baby kicking from 9 till 12 contstant kicks and movements then 4am till about 7 :-( agh! yeah ma boobs leak mainly at night which is odd.

The first time it happened i thought my partner did something in the night as i had white all over my arm (musky white) so i blames him he was like It wasn't me then a few nights later i was just sat down no bra on and noticed it coming out. weird! bonus is they are growing! lol

chatty, so sorry it's all been so tough recently. I've posted on your other thread, so I won't repeat myself. I hope things sort themselves out soon.

Looby - I haven't had any leaking yet, but I have heard of others who have, so I guess it's normal. My baby has a definite routine... He always wakes up around 5.30-6 and gives me a little wake up call, then goes back to sleep until about 9am. He's then quiet until lunchtime, has a little kick about until about 2pm. Then it's another little nap before his afternoon exercise around 5pm for about an hour. Another snooze is followed by another round of organ football at 9pm, a few late evening kicks before going off to sleep for the night. He's always more active around meal times too, maybe he's a greedy begger like his mum!

Mrs mar - Bless thats so lovely ur times seem good i think mine could be a footballer or ballet dancer. So i gather by the He part your having a baby Boy. congrats! i left it to a suprise but now i cant stop trying to guess, though everyone tells me i carry as if its a girl all at the front but everyone different so i think thats a load of bull... ! hm!

Yeah when ur boobs leak its v strange lol i think thats when it actually hits me IM PREGNANT and then i think ewwww whats happening to my body. i also watched how to look good naked on tv the other night and it made me feel that having kids means the end of the world. becasue of all the body changes. aghhhhhhh!!!!

I don't know for sure I'm having a boy, just a hunch... having a scan this afternoon so may have to start saying she soon!

I think my baby is in a GF routine already!!! How funny is that??

you got scan today o how lovely is it ur 20 week one? i think mine is a boy well thats my gut but im prob wrong!

it is a 20 week one, but a bit late... I'm 22 weeks

Good luck with your scan MrsMar

O wow good luck sweet so exciting. my baby has a really long spine i think its going to be a big one. you can tell me if your scan pictures makes urs look long then i may not feel as worried. lol

Hi Everyone

Chatty - what a nightmare for you. But, I'm sure it's a good sign he's talking to you, and, as others have said, it's common for people to get a bit nervy about things - I've been feeling that a bit myself recently. Good luck!

I had my own total depression last night when I weighed myself. OMG!! I can't even confess how much weight I've put on. Time to cut out sweeties methinks. Feeling fed up at all the restrictions of pregnancy... and then I feel guilty for feeling fed up!

Re leaking breasts - not had this particular pleasure yet myself (and I did laugh at your initial presumption loobybump!) - but at least you know all's working properly.

Hope everyone has a good day x

thanks everyone... will post with results this arvo... sorry to steal your name as it were HIWBB but blimey I hope it won't be big!!! I'm quite tall, but dh is normal height, I've got a huge hip/feet combo which some think has no bearing on how easy it is to get the blighter out but I hope so. I was a 10lb-er for my poor mum, hoping that's not hereditary!

Aw rin iv managed to avoid weighing myself at all my midwife weighed me when i had my first appointment i was 7 and a half now i wouldnt even wanna know as i can tell how much weight becasue i couldnt even pull my skinny jeans up - not so skinny now eh! although i did eat a tub of ben and jerrys last night and they got loads of cals in..! as for boobs leaking i got a feeling its just me then... your time will come. hahah just dont blame it on ur partner as he may get a lill p155ed of at you. :-)

ChattyHan - i think you're being really strong and handling things so well. I'm glad you're going out with DP on Sunday to talk things over, have some red wine you deserve it! and I hope it all goes well and you get the outcome you want and need.

MrsMar good luck for the scan later

As for weight gain - I can't go near the scales I'm too scared! I'm trying to be good but like loobybump am having the odd sneeky ben and jerrys!

Can I just say that I just had a huge portion of chocolate sponge and chocolate custard? YUM! Isn't it great being able to eat whatever without feeling toooooooo guilty?

I eat whatever though i always feel guilty! haha! though i have just eaten mor ice cREAM!!!! mmmmmm! and 3 bananas and i used to h8 them. Food food food! fat fat fat! :D