So sorry to hear that BoBo
sending hugs.
After yesterday horrendous nausea I had none today, and tummy hurts a little when I cough, so I'm worried now too! It's such a worry when you have to wait so long for the 12 week scan 
Re. NCT my ex and I went when we were expecting DS, to be honest most of the information we were given I already knew, but it was good for ex as he had no idea. The breastfeeding was generally crap, DS had a tongue tie and feeding initially was excruciatingly painful. So many midwives looked at him and said, "oh he has a tongue tie"...but as he was still feeding and putting on weight no one was all that bothered about my bleeding nipples! Finally I had a lovely midwife who referred us to have it sorted and instantly feeding was so much easier. I will forever have the scars on my nipples though 
I think it's probably just luck, but the mums at our NCT were all brill and we would meet up every week when the babies were tiny. It got less and less as they got to about 6 months, but we're still in touch.
I don't think I'll bother this time and get a mum network from baby groups when baby's here rather than NCT..