friendly. I hope your grandma pulls through and you ca rebook your appointment
flipper you should definitely tell your husband how upset you are. Hopefully when you next have to see them it'll be smoother but definitely don't let people touch you if you don't like it!
ever in the morning my bump is so small no one but my DH and I could possibly see it. My the evening it's just wind! By the way, the movement I've felt feels a lot like end so who knows if I even know what I'm talking about regarding movement of 
Also 3.8 kilos sounds like the perfect weight gain for where you are. I've read 5-10 by week 17. Anyhow pre pregnancy BMI is what counts for risk. Don't worry about getting in trouble for pregnancy gain!