slightly longer post about me ...........
I am 24, 25 in February so will miss out on yet another big birthday celebration ( was pg for my 21st birthday too!)
Matthew is my 3yo, he's a real sweetheart, i'd already split up with his dad before i found out i was pregnant, after 3 years together.
Was on my own until early this year when an ex from school reappeared, got into what i thought would be a long term thing but sadly didn't work out, tho managed to fall pg in the mean time!
can't say my life plan was to be a single mother to 2 children with 2 different fathers but i'm getting used to it. I think it's why i've struggled so much with this pg, getting my head around being something i never wanted to be.
I work as a temp at the moment, placed with TNT Logistics since June, started job share last week so now only do 3 days and loving it!
My new man works for them too, tho in a different branch of the company. He's 37, will be 38 in Feb. He has 4 children from his marriage which ended over 8 years ago (they married and had children very young!). He only sees 3 of them, youngest is 10, eldest of the 4 is 18.
we get on really well but are taking things VERY slowly! been seeing him for a couple of months now but only met his kids last week, went to the park with them, his niece and nephew, my lo and my 16yo brother. made it far less stressful as they weren't forced to 'meet me', i was just there.
sorry to ramble on, just me best mate (my only female friend, i'm more of a man's girl!) has a new boyf and hasn't bothered to visit or go out since before christmas so i've got no-one else to tell about how happy i am!!!!