Mermaid - thats a proper looking baby right there! Amazing how they change just within a week.
My hormonal rage has lessened a bit, but I found myself swearing at cutlery this morning
I've not snapped at DP since the weekend thankfully, I think the bleeding/pain scare with two days up hospital sort of took over and everything is cool.
Found out last night though that DSS's Mum introduced DSS to a bloke she's known FOUR days on Wednesday
- When I met DSS I waited 2 months and I thought that was quick, but DSS was desperate to meet me. DP is absolutely fuming and has passed all contact with DSS Mum to me for the minute because he knows he will let rip - if he did literally the consequences are not worth thinking about, so this for now is better. I cannot believe she did it though - up until last month she was seeing another bloke, who DSS hadn't met but knew about, and now this? She only met him on Saturday, has been going on and on about him and how he wants us to meet him before he meets DSS, and then Wednesday happens. She didn't even tell us until late last night, said it was a brief meeting, and then we found out it was, in fact, two meetings, lasting in total at least an hour, and that this new bloke who neither me nor DP have met, and who DSS's Mum has known less time than when I last went for a shit, drove DSS to school with his Mum.
DP, bless him, was off the scale angry but managed to keep it cool, but she kept saying "well he's really nice it was just a one off" and saying how we were right to be angry but "you'll meet him soon and vet him" - Doesn't seem to have occurred to her that the reason we are annoyed is because a) she lied, four times b) DP and she have always had arrangement that partners meet parents first (like I did) and c) SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HIM EITHER!!! Now the bloke knows where she lives, what her son's name is, what he looks like, where he goes to school.... 
DP is angry at her but I'm angry at both of them - he's got kids too, so should have more respect for my DP and of not rushing DP's ex. But try telling her that...