If it's any comfort on the big baby front DS was 9lbs 1oz (they didn't realise he was going to be big) and the labour/birth was very straightforward 5.5 hours from waking up to delivering him, arrived at hospital 9cms dilated had gas and air and had him in the birthing pool with 4 pushes 
I'm getting lots of comments on how big my bump is too...! I just tell them DS was big and I'm expecting another 9lber 
My midwife said a couple of weeks again that the baby's head is 3/5 engaged so quite low down for this stage, but on the plus side I'm not getting the achey ribs that I had with DS and also I have more long space for breathing 
Struggling with sleep at the moment, very tired and have a bit of a cold. I keep waking up super early and wanting afternoon naps which I can't have as either at work or DS wakes me up after a 10 minute doze on the settee! DH is helping where he can but he's out the house from 7:45am and not back until 6:45pm but he's looking after DS at the weekends whilst I have epic naps during the afternoon!
Just waiting for the end of the month and we can buy the last baby bits. Before then we're having a general tidy up and sorting out DS's baby stuff.
I also need to ask one of my neighbours if needed could she look after DS if I happen to go into labour in the middle of the night! A friend has offered which is great but she loves in the opposite direction to the hospital and I'm a bit worried in case the labour is really fast, I don't want to give birth in the car! Will have my brother and then afterwards my mum staying so as long as the baby is not born before 39 weeks babysitting is covered!