An example of Dad to be pregnancy brain here. We got 21/2 hours towards the peak district when I realised I had not brought the key to the hut we would be staying in yesterday. Had to drive home (via mothercare
) and we're going to try again today.
Regarding not doing enough in the house partners, have a conversation about it. mrsthedog and I had all the usual disagreements about it, one of us likes keeping things tidy, one doesn't, one is very good at deep cleans, the other and general cleanliness. It became such a big deal, one not doing what the other wanted began to equal not valuing them (or that's how we viewed it). One resolution was a cleaner and mrsthedog becoming a teacher, she was so busy with her planning and marking that sometimes it would come mostly down to me and (thank goodness) the cleaner.
Good luck with it though, I have to admit to being rubbish at seeing dirt and great at seeing untidiness. Mrsthedog can spend a few minutes in a room and make it look amazing but I get bogged down in sorting out where things need to go.