good luck freddysays/trix!
sarah - all the things they write on your notes! I got all excited when I saw 2/5, until she said it's irrelevant!
Midwife came out this afternoon (she's a star!) apparently my killing pain is the head engaging another 1/5 overnight - so I'm now a total of 3/5. Apparently it's probably hurting as the baby is likely to be bigger than ds (he was 7lb 14 at birth) and also I'm nowhere near as fat as last time! Bugger! I told dh and he got all excited - until I pointed out the midwife said the same as yesterday - it's totally irrelevant!
Apparently it's moved too - she won't tell me if it's back facing or forward, she says it doesn't matter which is odd as I thought it did.
And like you sarah, she wouldn't entertain even having a look below! You can tell I'm desperate now, the mw looking down there was a thing of horror when I was pg with ds, now I'd let anyone have a poke in an attempt to get this baby out quicker!