Am so very jealous feathers and ben is a lovely name.
Now I know you have a lo already but from what I remember you had an early birth and labour so haven't done the c section and recovery part. My advice is make the most of being in bed for the day and take your pain relief religiously before you need to take it. The tiredness hit me like a wall after the second night and I could scarcely keep my eyes open to feed her. She was a hungry baby too and it seemed like she was on me every 20 mins until my milk came in on the 3rd day.
I would have lost the plot I think but an older me came and took her for 4 hours the 3rd night and gave her a cup feed. I got some sleep and felt like a new woman the next day and my milk arrived too so dd was much easier.
Had a crappy night last night. Up and Down every hour. Sigh. And I feel a bit odd again. Some pmt like cramps, some sharp pains in my groin and a bit of browny pink discharge. Am 36 weeks today so no rush for him to come yet especially as I am sure he is still breech!