LittleBairn what a shitty situation, I think your ultimatum was very fair in the circs.
I hope you get time for a moment to sit and remember your DS today
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Welcome MrsFoo and HoneyMum! :)
I just had the daftest call from the hospital, along the lines of
"Hello, this is the midwife calling from the hospital, PLEASE DON'T WORRY, I'm not calling about anything wrong with your blood tests, don't worry, I don't have any bad news" and on and on and on, before she got to the point about some boxes that hadn't been filled in properly on the blood test forms!
Poor woman, she must've had some bad reactions to her phone calls before, she sounded so relieved when I was totally unfazed and just gave her the right info.
Off to hospital again on Monday to see a consultant about I've-No-Idea-What. I've asked on the phone and noone seems to be able to tell me what the appointment is for, so we've assumed it's due to having GBStrep last time, which if i have it again will mean home birth is out of the equation, and I'll be under consultant care on Labour Ward for the birth. Meh.
If its something else I'll be a bit put out! Not keen on surprises...
Have to get an hour of buses to get to the Hosp with DS in tow which I'm not thrilled about either.
I get DH's car sometime in the New Year, as I won't be able to get lifts anymore with two DC in carseats, and DH gets a comfier commuting car.
I can't wait, I haven't had my own wheels for over 10 years! 
15+6