Welcome kakey and owl! Congrats to you both.
samsmother I'm glad you're coming closer to acceptance of your situation. Feel free to vent on here. We've all got here in different ways- accidents, just shaggers, surprise babies as well as long term TTC and IVFers. So we understand not everyone has the same emotions. It is a lot to get your head round however you got here. We won't judge.
Rock thanks, hopefully Monday will go well. I'll miss DS though! I don't think I fancy being a SAHM TBH. Nothing against it, I just don't think it's for me. Besides, we have expensive hobbies (on hold for now - hurtling down hills on bikes and boards doesn't mix well with PG) and we'd like to introduce DCs to them one day, for which money is rather essential! 