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March 2014 - thread 3....Boy can we chat!

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Souredstoneshasasouredpebble · 01/08/2013 21:09

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
LittleMachine · 02/08/2013 16:35

Pram, the worst thing was I was craving Christmas trees in May Sad

Maybe that was a good thing though.

LittleMachine · 02/08/2013 16:36

Welcome joosie! Congratulations.

SoSurprised · 02/08/2013 16:58

76 posts already!

Soured I hope you are feeling Better and finger crossed the bleeding stops soon.

I am currently stuck at the bus stop. The traffic isn't moving at all. Trying to avoid exhaust fumes of the buses and second hand smoke.

LyraSilvertongue · 02/08/2013 17:04

Welcome new people Smile

I'm so exhausted today that I barely have the energy to breathe. I remember this was a regular thing when I had a two-year-old and a newborn.
Feel like I should be doing nice things in this nice weather but just moving from the sofa for a glass of water is a monumental effort. At least I'm less over-emotional than yesterday. DP and I came close to splitting up and it was awful. But we've made up and ate both going to make a bigger effort to respect each other and be kind so hopefully we'll be ok. I'd hate for this baby to grow up with an absent father.

PramelaAndherson · 02/08/2013 17:50

Pram, the worst thing was I was craving Christmas trees in May

Oh, Little, I can't begin to tell you how hilarious I found this Grin

Lyra, what a bloody shame. I hope you two find some peace.

I know it's awful to admit but I am actually looking forward to sandwich-gate tonight...

PiratesMam · 02/08/2013 17:54

Littlemachine that is quite comedy morning sickness, puking at the sight of monkeys!!!

Lyra I hope everything is ok with your DP now. You need lots of support and sympathetic ears feeling so emotional and knackered so I hope he understands that! I hope my DH would too if he ever came home from work

soured Really hope the bleeding dries up and I echo the sentiment to make the most of the EPU - that's what we pay our taxes for, you're not wasting their time, that's what they are there for! Lay it on thick if nec; stress is the last thing you need. If you feel like they are getting annoyed (although I'm sure they won't) just tell yourself you're never going to see them again!

joosie hello! Sounds like the early part of your last pregnancy was seriously stressful. Hope you have a smoother ride this time.

Pram get you with your do-gooding! I am seriously impressed. It will be nice to have a distraction from everything else, am sure you'll be glad once you're in the swing of it. If nothing else, you can bagsy all the decent bargains before they hit the shelf ;-)

re: cravings - having a thing for meat flavoured crisps but not actual meat, and sundried tomatoes. And would REALLY love a camembert baguette!!!! Also well into margarita pizza which DH calls a waste of a pizza!

LyraSilvertongue · 02/08/2013 18:00

Thanks guys. I'm sure we'll be ok. He hasn't been that understanding about how I've been feeling. I'm a SAHM so he doesn't get why I'm so tired when he's working 12 hours a day, 6 days a week. He gets it a bit more now after seeing me turn into a basket case yesterday Grin

Soured, I agree with the others. Go to the EPU if you need to.

Can anyone else feel their uterus yet? I can I think if I lie on my side. It feels really hard. DP could feel it this morning too.

PramelaAndherson · 02/08/2013 18:12

Oh, no! Please don't think I'm a do-gooder; I'm absolutely not. I'm really impatient with old people who push in front of me in queues but I feel so blessed to be having this IVF baby that I want to give something back. I'm also attracted by the fact the charity shop is right next door to Greggs. If the shop stinks too much I won't be staying

Speaking of stinking, that fart I just did smells like a decaying rat in a drain Sad

PramelaAndherson · 02/08/2013 18:14

Welcome, joosie. How old are you, pliz?

ChocChaffinch · 02/08/2013 18:17

hello March crew 'Martians' LOL

am lurking as really early April but having section more than likely; so probably be last few days of March.

5+1 and no nausea yet, so troffing as much as possible, had HG with my dc2 so waiting with trepidation for puking...remember last time I retched so hard I would pee myself..

Lambchop14 · 02/08/2013 18:22

Just had to make a formal complaint to Talk Talk as being having terrible service since March and burst out crying on the phone! Why did it have to happen? I wanted to stay firm and angry whilst on the phone to them! Feeling emotional to say the least ha ha

Lambchop14 · 02/08/2013 18:23

Been having - god I can't even type properly lol

Lambchop14 · 02/08/2013 18:25

P.s anyone tried Ginger Ale for sickness? I have just bought some and it's chilling before I try it for the first time. Someone at work recommended it.

LyraSilvertongue · 02/08/2013 18:45

Dp brought me ginger ale when I was sick, despite having no idea what it was. He had to get the shop assistant to help him. It did help a little bit.

firsttimekat · 02/08/2013 18:46

I've not tried ginger ale but do have a packet of ginger biscuits at work which seem to be helping with the post tube sickness. Don't know if its the ginger or just the sugar!

ChocChaffinch · 02/08/2013 19:10

plain biscuits, lemon sweets, tonic water, lemon squash, hot water + lemon
you can make your own milkshakes - whatever fruit you like
raisins, dry cereal,

all things I tried

LittleMachine · 02/08/2013 19:24

Hope things are ok with you Lyra.

littleABI · 02/08/2013 20:00

Hi all, just been catching up on all the threads for us March ladies Smile some very heartbreaking stories and some encouraging ones too.

I am 23 years old and 7+1 weeks, due March 21st. This will be our first little one so DH and I are excited and nervous. We've decided to tell our parents after the 8 week appt with MW, but might change our minds. The thing is, it gets very daunting with all these tests for this and that, we need some advice!

Have you/will you get all the tests done in the early stages of preg? And what does a usual first appointment with a midwife go like? We are both from religious backgrounds which call for a lot of "wait and see what God gives you" but we really want the best for our baby, and times have changed... (sorry if that's a little too much for some).

I have a kidney problem called Minimal Change disease, which is a disease of the kidney that there isn't much research about. Fortunately I am in remission, I am taking 5mg of prednisolone every other day, and I wonder if that's what's stopping me vomit!! I've had awful nausea for about 2 weeks, it's currently subsided and now the boobs hurt instead. The condition can look like pre-eclampsia because of the protein leaking into urine, and swelling too, so the specialist gyn is going to look after me.

Aaaanyway, that's my penny's worth, glad to be on here, and any advice you can give (or anything I just read on here anyway) will be appreciated. Really loving being a part of something!

MummyPig24 · 02/08/2013 20:09

I've chosen not to have the nuchal screening this time. I did last time but I don't think I will. Whatever happens we would keep the baby. More can be seen at the anomaly scan too.

Still haven't told any family. I'm so emotional and tired. I might even go to bed!

x0gawjus0x · 02/08/2013 20:12

Got early scan tmoz at 9am in epu after being in a+e for 3 hours :( will be 10 weeks so scared keep me in prayers please :( xx

PramelaAndherson · 02/08/2013 20:13

Aw, Abi, you sound really cute. Congratulations and please don't apologise for mentioning your faith on here. I am a Christian and I want to constantly shout from the rooftops how blessed I feel having an IVF baby. Much to be grateful for Smile

The booking-in appointment will take 1-2 hours and is really boring an exhaustive check on family and gynaecological history plus some useful info re your pregnancy ie. when to expect scans and stuff. Lots of us on here will be having the nuchal test (for Downs). I would keep the baby despite any problems it would have but I would also like a heads-up so we can prepare for its birth, does that make sense?

Sorry to hear about your disease and I hope it doesn't impact on your pregnancy too much.

ChocChaffinch · 02/08/2013 20:15

Thanks best of luck

PramelaAndherson · 02/08/2013 20:16

I was in the hairdressers today (bemoaning my filthy bastard dark roots) and I was chatting to this one-year-old boy with Downs. He was utterly adorable and everything I asked him he shouted, "yeah!" I wanted to take him home.

PramelaAndherson · 02/08/2013 20:18

Welcome, Choc.

Gawjus, you poor thing, what took you to A&E? You'll be in my prayers x

lumpylumps · 02/08/2013 20:23

pram I've also gone off chocolate and tea and could devour an entire French bread stick lathered in butter!!!!! Mouths watering now. Wonder if I can pull my first baby wants to dh?!

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