Thanks all for the comments, glad I wasn't just being a hormonal whale!! With regards to complaining I'm a bit uncertain how to as I don't have a Senior MW listed anywhere on my notes and because of where I am it's all a bit of a kerfuffle (sp?) I live in Somerset, but my Dr surgery is still classed as Avon (even though Avon no longer exists, MW centre is in South Gloucestershire, yet the hospital I'm giving birth in is in Wiltshire.. Do I make a complaint to SG which is the authority the MW is under? PALS have got a contact in one of the SG hospitals but it's 15 miles away so not sure if that would be the right point of contact? Sorry for all the Q's just seems like some of you have a bit more experience with this sort of thing, already being mummies :)
Just feel completely stripped of my confidence and authority when it comes to asserting myself for what I want for LO and birth now, never mind DH has said that when DM comes with me my ferocity will return and we will leave the MW with no qualms about what is and isn't acceptable treatment and that the MW in question is to have NO part in the rest of my care. (DH is secretly wishing he had ringside tickets, the Blondie women are a force to be reckoned with, my DGM is a retired Prison Officer!!)
Moving on and thanks for letting me rant away and have a good old moan - I have turned my upset into anger and energy wishing for quick, early and efficient labour.
The cramping and contracting have been happening more consistently on and off iyswim for the past few days so I'm hoping they'll regulate and be the proper start of something rather than just through middle of the day and middle of the night!
Dairy Your hair really doesn't look that bad, good luck with the blonde :)
Mamma Glad your DP has seen sense and you've got a lovely new car for when LO is here!
SSC Good luck for Thursday!! Getting so real that we'll have at least 2 more June babies this time next week - excited for everyone else let alone myself 
Cathfin Hope your DH gets better and doesn't need too much looking after so he can look after you!
Happy Jubilee everybody - I hope you all find your inner royalist (or at the very least get to eat festive cake)!!
Kveta I hope your little jubi-lady arrives for you over this long weekend :)
To everyone else have a lovely few days and take it easy! Xx