Just popping my head round the door to see how you're all doing.
Far that's fabulous news about your scan! Congrats!!!
Whims I haven't ever posted in AIBU but the few threads I've read in that forum seem pretty scary! You're a brave person. I'm off to have a look at your thread next, but it's already obvious that YADNBU!
As for the gender selection thing, I'm going to be all controversial and say that if it was possible in a safe and easy-to-implement way I would think that it should be available in the UK. We can't pretend that people don't already intervene with every other aspect of reproduction, why not this? I think gender selection is preferable to women having babies they don't fully love/appreciate due to gender. I still believe the vast majority of women wouldn't use selection, they would love their child whatever the gender. Only those people that are obsessed with a particular gender would use selection, and surely letting them select is a more humane option than, say, sterilization? 
This is just my opinion though, I'm not trying to pick a fight with anyone who disagrees, I respect all viewpoints on this. It's an important ethical issue and all perspectives should be considered.
Jen your DD is just gorgeous! Absolutely scrummy! Well done you (again)!
Sorry that's as far back as I've read. I hope everyone is doing well and time is whizzing by for you all! Ninja I'll be back in here every day to check everything's going smoothly for you. Can't wait for your sneeze birth to arrive!! Of course you must be looking forward to your DD's arrival as well seeing as your family won't be complete until you have a girl 