Thanks everyone. Just spent the last couple of hours watching children killing each other (Hunger Games) and it has bizarrely worked wonders for giving me some perspective!
I'll be spending the eve prepping all the arguments from last time, but I agree with Popcorn and Pomme that I'm going to try to introduce the whole topic as a done deal. I'll explain the appt debacle and that really it was just booking in an already agreed op. We'll see what he says. I have to be ready to talk him into it.
DH is rearranging work to be at the appt tomorrow (not easy with weddings! He says his colleagues are really supportive though and he should be able to get cover.) My imw has conflicting appts tomorrow but she's trying to reschedule them, she's going to let me know later if she can come.
Thanks for all the No Brooking! I was just thrown by it all this morning (I had foolishly pinned my hopes on having everything resolved). Now I just need to get back into IYFNBM! (In Your Face No Brooking Mode!)
Loving the idea of Hawthers and the gorgeous Farley in IYFNBM!
I hope Dream is snuggled up with her lovely boys right now. Can't wait for her announcement!! Not long to Farfalla's scan either, looking forward to good news!