Iph great to see you back!
Ballroom sorry about your news.
Well, I've given the hospital a week plus 3 working days to get back to me, and they haven't, so I assume I'm low risk. Just waiting for the letter now, although it could be another 3 and a half weeks. Grr. Hoping for awesome odds like some others have already had, but I'm 30 so not holding my breath.
Getting really irritated with all the messing around- my MiL asked DH if the due date changed after the scan, and he said yes (idiot) and she was doing her whole nodding all-knowing wise woman act and it really pissed me off. No, it hasn't changed. Peanut is just bigger than expected. I wish he would think before opening his trap, especially to his mum.
Looking forward to it coming up in conversation so I can put her straight. She's arriving tomorrow and I can look forward to the next 5 months being a slog of non-stop outdated and misinformed advice, which I'm obviously going to ignore. I just hope she doesn't send my blood pressure through the roof!
Had my parents to stay for nearly a week and it was utter bliss, gardening and lots of help, and understanding and hugs. My MiL is a pain. she means well, but she just doesn't listen.
She told me she could come to midwife and scan appointments with me (no, that is DH's right, not yours, and you can't have 2! There's only 1 chair!) and that hot baths are fine, when I've been told they're not, and even said when we go swimming we can use the jacuzzi and steam room (which a is a definite no-no!) and when I tell her this, she just pulls a face and says that's not how it was before. Sigh. It has been over 24 years since she last had a child, I wish she'd just accept that things are different!
Last time she was here she told me 3 TIMES that when we have children they need non-slip socks so they don't fall over on our wooden floors. Once is enough, I'm not braindead. I expect she'll be telling me this same thing over and over and over again, until I buy some. ARGH!
Wow, that was a rant. Not dealing well with her coming, I guess.
In good news, I've managed to drop 5 pounds and a whole BMI point since I saw the midwife. Got another 2 weeks til I see the fat consultant, so going to do my utmost to prove I'm not another one of their wanky statistics. Honestly. Obesity is the new smoking. Grump.