Hello ladies - thanks so much for all your good wishes. I'm home again now - couldn't update today because my battery died and I had to wait for DH to arrive during visitors hours with my charger. (Another thing to make sure you have in your hospital bags!!)
I did lose some fluid when the baby turned head down and moved down into my pelvis but if my cervix was open last night (midwife and jr doc thought 1-2cm dilated but registrar was dubious), it closed up again somehow and I am fine. I still have some stabby pains and my bump feels quite bruised and sore but as it's responding to paracetamol and I didn't lose any more fluid, I was allowed to go home this evening. I am definitely having BH contractions now though, they showed up on the monitors and they hurt. I think lying in bed for 24 hours definitely slowed them up though so I will be taking it easy from now on.
Everyone was very lovely and kind to me and they were really pleased with the muffins DH brought them. He has really proven his worth in purest gold over the last few days - and cancelled all his half term plans to see friends to be here for me this week. He made chilli tonight and bought me flowers and a kung-fu movie and all sorts of lovely things - grapefruits to squeeze for my breakfast and everything.
I'm not working tomorrow to get some rest - we'll see about Tues and whether I start mat leave early (DH is really pushing for this), but this week we're definitely sorting out EVERYTHING - car seat, hospital bag, pram etc. No more procrastinating!!
Main takeaway - although it was as pleasant an experience as it could have been with two speculum examinations, not much sleep with four other ladies' fetal monitors going, and incredibly hot and dehydrated, it has deepened my resolve to have a home birth. I have never been so sad to see DH leave as I was last night - if you guys hadn't been out there making me laugh (you and your boob squirt threats horse!) I would have been very miserable and sorry for myself indeed. And then getting out today was a little nightmare in itself - midwife needing to find a doctor who was finding a registrar who was finding a consultant etc etc etc.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, baby is still in there and hopefully won't go anywhere fast. Thanks for all your good wishes - best thing I ever did, joining this thread way back when! Hope you all had a better weekend than me and will catch up on all your news tomorrow.
Tyelperion xxx