For Bereaved Mummies. Remembering Jack and our other precious little ones... the sharing of hurt is the beginnning of healing.

[lottiejenkins]

Third time lucky........ Thanks to Shabs and FMN. I hope i can carry the baton as well as you did. I havent made a good start though. Things can only get better.........

self inflicted... no sympathy shabs LOL
At least you enjoyed your night & im sure you'll feel better in the morning after a good nights sleep- i hate hangovers!

Night Mel - Night girls - see you all in the morning xx

Good morning girls....or as my Greek friends would say Kale Mera xx

morning girlsxxxxx

Morning hazy - another early bird like me. Have been awake an hour now!!

morning ladies , weathers awful here today .

weather is warm today my 17 year old dd has made me walk miles today xim worn out now x

Hello all

I hope everyone is having an ok day today .
I hope your new job goes well tomorrow Kat
What will you be doing ?

Nothing much to report here , I have got Harrys birthday coming up (7th Oct) so feeling the usual grimness about that .

Nearly time for wine I reckon

Hi all............... am at my friends on her computer, my puter is not going to be better till tomorrow!! [sad} I had an email from Wilf last night informing me he can now ride his bike without stabilisers........ cue much rejoicing in Laxfield and surrounding villages.

Evening ladies, how is everyone today?

Evening ladies, how is everyone today?

Hiya Mel - I went to see my first grandchild this morning. He is 4 months old now - and is delicious - good enough to eat.

My son, Danny's partner - Em has had severe PND but is much better. Lewis is the image of his Uncle Gareth (Dannys twin) and at first it was really difficult for me to be around him. Every time I looked into those massive navy blue eyes I wanted to cry.

We are all getting used to each other and loving each other more every day.

Its a lovely feeling being a grandma xx

I love seeing babies it gets me so broody- if I could get anymore broody! LOL.
A friend of a friend had her baby today and when I saw the pics I went all mushy.

I remember your previous post about Em having PND -Im glad shes feeling better. Having children is such a big adjustment to everything, sometimes it takes time to settle into.
I can imagine its been hard for you, Rhys looked looked a spitting image of Jack. except Rhys was much bigger. when I looked at him (and even now) It made me so sad & I cant help imagining whether Jack would look like his little brother.

Ems situation has been made worse by the fact that she is a nursery nurse at a nursery attached to a primary school in Bolton. She is a massive hit with all the 2 year olds she looks after. If you are in town with her loads of children shout her name.

She said she was gobsmacked at the difference between looking after someone elses child and actually having a baby of your own.

They will be fine....Danny has a beautiful family.

I have been singing songs to Lew and sniffing him - I love that baby smell.

We have been searching for years for the 'light at the end of the tunnel' and I think I can just see it but its still a few miles away

Im sure they will be fine shabs these things just take time and work (as we all know) but it sounds like she/they have a great family to love & support them. x

I still do it now at 18months I love smelling Rhys's hair -except when you can guess what hes had for lunch just by sniffing his head - boys are SO messy! LOL

Im off to bed now, can feel a cold coming on. the boys have been a bit sniffy today too....all the winter bugs are coming!!

Night x

Good night Mel - sweet dreams.

Good night girls - see you all in the morning. Thinking of all our lovely children tonight - they would all be so proud of us for 'sticking together to fight the world!'

Night night all, god bless.
Glad to hear Em is getting better Shabs.

Good morning girls - its still dark here!!!

Good morning all

Its dark here as well , I am sure I shouldn't be up and about in the morning when I need to put lights on . Makes me think of christmas . Very scary

Hows you this morning Shabs ?

Im ok thanks love - just packed lunch to do, uniform to put on, books in bag, pe kit in sports bag, breakfast, toilet stuff, and out of the door - and thats just Tommy!!!!

Quiet morning then

I really should be doing something similar rather than fiddling about on here

Everything done and Tommy on his way up the hill to school!

morning girls shabs have to agree been a granny is brill amelia is one today,but cant agree with the smell after what she did in her nappy yesterday,then dh went round with air freshner ,dont know what smelt worse

Happy, happy 1st birthday Amelia (beautiful name by the way)

Hope you all have a fun day Hazy xxx

Happy Birthday Amelia

We've got the heating and lights on here today

I'm always sniffing Mac, he smells divine.

Shabs - I can't believe Lewis is 4 months old already, where has the time gone?! Am glad Em is feeling better.