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My beautiful, brave Harry bear

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dizzy34 · 04/05/2008 17:30

I have posted alot in the special needs section over the years. I am heart broken. My beautiful, brave Harry passed away peacefully on tuesday in mine and his daddys arms. I am lost, heartbroken. I want him back so much. I want to kiss him and cuddle him. I want him. He was only five and had been very ill and disabled since birth (www.harrysjourney.co.uk). He took us all by suprise though. we knew we wouldnt have him long, but i didnt think he would go this soon. He had been ill at christmas and was only given hours to live, but he fought it. It left him exhaused and he slept most days, all day. He couldnt fight anymore.

I love him so much. He is in the butterfly suite at claire house at the moment and we are spending time with him till his funeral on friday. I miss him so much it hurts physically. I know he is better where he is and that his body works now, but i want him with me. Please tell me it gets easier.

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cath81 · 04/05/2008 21:40

I'm so sorry to read this. What an amazing, brave little boy. you must be very proud to be his parent's.
You're very much in my thoughts. xx

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jonamum · 04/05/2008 21:41

So sorry, much love to you xxx

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Heated · 04/05/2008 21:44

Your special boy and your family are in my prayers tonight xxx

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keepcalmandcarryon · 04/05/2008 22:07

So sorry to read this news. Will be praying for you and your family.

I have been reading your website, which I found very moving. I am sure it will be of support to other families.

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Ledodgy · 04/05/2008 22:09

I'm so sorry Dizzy I don't know what to say. You must feel like your heart has torn in two. I'm in Liverpool as well so if there's anything I can do please let me know. x

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lisad123 · 04/05/2008 22:10

sitting here crying reading your thread. NO one should lose a child, especially so youg. My thoughts are with you and your family at the time hun.
Love and hugs for you and yours. x

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Quattrocento · 04/05/2008 22:11

I am so sorry Thinking of you

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tortoise · 04/05/2008 22:13

so very sorry

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Beauregard · 04/05/2008 22:14

Thinking of you and your dh ,i am very sorry

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Celia2 · 04/05/2008 22:16

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onlyjoking9329 · 04/05/2008 22:20

My thoughts are with you all, i can only begin to imagine how you might be feeling right now, the death of a child is just so wrong.

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dippymother · 04/05/2008 22:57

Just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss.

Please join us on Eris' thread for Bereaved Mummies (sorry havent mastered links yet!), where you may find some comfort and support from others who have lost children (some recently, some a long time ago).

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CrazyMofo · 04/05/2008 23:04

So sorry for your loss x

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MrsJohnCusack · 04/05/2008 23:22

I am so sorry for the loss of your brave Harry Bear. RIP x

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oops · 04/05/2008 23:32

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Miaou · 04/05/2008 23:42

Oh dizzy I am so sorry. Thinking of you xxx.

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anorak · 04/05/2008 23:43

Oh how sad, I'm so sorry

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ChorusLine · 04/05/2008 23:44

I'm so sorry for the loss of Harry x

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charleymouse · 05/05/2008 00:04

DIzzy so sorry for your loss
take care love CM

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sushistar · 05/05/2008 00:07

So sorry dizzy.

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bethoo · 05/05/2008 00:09

So very sorry for your loss x

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Ceolas · 05/05/2008 00:13

So sorry to hear this, dizzy.

Look after each other xx

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Tisntme · 05/05/2008 00:41
Sad
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windygalestoday · 05/05/2008 01:15

so very sorry xx

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RnB · 05/05/2008 01:19

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