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My son is dying

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blindspots · 21/01/2021 17:53

This is fucking cancer. He is 2. We are only 3 months from diagnosis and we are out of active treatment options.

I hate cancer, I hate the pandemic disrupting our world and keeping us from people we love.

He has been so tough she and strong and there is nothing more they can do, the cancer just keeps coming back.

I would give everything to keep him

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TreadLightly3 · 21/01/2021 20:36

I am so so so so sorry, I can’t imagine how much pain you must be in. Sending you all love xx

Allgirlskidsanddogs · 21/01/2021 20:38

That is awful. I am so sorry.

bluebell34567 · 21/01/2021 20:40

so sorry.
i hope a miracle happens and he survives and never has it again. Flowers

imalmosthere · 21/01/2021 20:40

No words op.
I'm so, so very sorry. Thanks

pantherrose · 21/01/2021 20:40
Flowers
Jarline · 21/01/2021 20:41

My heart hurts for you. I'm so sorry.

LivingMyBestLife2020 · 21/01/2021 20:43

There are no words. Life can be cruel and cancer is fucking shit. I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through x

Greeneyesbiglashes · 21/01/2021 20:44

I am so sorry. Cancer is a fucking awful awful disease. I am sending so much love to your family and praying for you all xx

ChelseaCat · 21/01/2021 20:46

I’m so sorry OP Flowers

worksleep · 21/01/2021 20:47

I am so very sorry.

WhatMattersMost · 21/01/2021 20:47

So very much love to you, your son, and your family, @blindspots Flowers

OakSun · 21/01/2021 20:48

I’m so very sorry, I don’t have anything useful to say except I’m listening.

Mummyoflittledragon · 21/01/2021 20:49

I am so terribly sorry. Big hugs Flowers

Tigger001 · 21/01/2021 20:51

Sorry @blindspots, cancer is the cruelest of things, and for someone so young, it's a total bas*ard. I have no words but our thoughts are with you.ThanksThanksThanks

It's fine that you are jealous of others, perfectly understandable. You act however you need to, to get you and your family through, there are times when being selfish is fine, this is top of the list

Plussizejumpsuit · 21/01/2021 20:52

Oh god I can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling @blindspots. This is so unfair it make me angry. Which city are you in? Just thinking if you say somone might be able to help with accommodation or offer advice. Just a practical thought.

EdwardCullensBiteOnTheSide · 21/01/2021 20:52

So sorry op Flowers

playthegame · 21/01/2021 20:54

I am so sorry OP 💐

bottleofbeer · 21/01/2021 20:54

Oh god, I am so, so sorry Sad

Backtoblack1 · 21/01/2021 20:58

So sorry for you and your baby boy. X

SunlessSea · 21/01/2021 20:58

I’m in Ireland, so I’m not sure if you do the same in the UK, but I’ve lit a candle for you and your little boy x

DfEisashambles · 21/01/2021 21:00

Sending love Flowers

blindspots · 21/01/2021 21:02

He is blond and has big blue eyes. He is cheeky and so happy and loves chickens, trucks and tractors and playing outside in the rain. He loves his big sisters and getting dressed up and princessed up with them. His favourite books are Dear Zoo and Oh Dear.

When he goes a piece of me will go too

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FraterculaArctica · 21/01/2021 21:03

Thinking of your beautiful baby boy, he sounds adorable. You will always and forever be his mummy XX

BelfastMaOf2 · 21/01/2021 21:04

I'm so sorry. Sending love to you, your incredibly brave little boy, and the rest of your family. Cancer is so cruel 😢

Blessex · 21/01/2021 21:05

@blindspots every mother’s worst nightmare. All my love and hugs. Flowers Nothing will fill the void. It will be something you will live with. X

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