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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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NinetyNineRedBalloonsGoBy · 06/11/2020 17:33

This is absolutely heartbreaking, I'm so very sorry OP. There are no wordsThanks

KiriAndLou · 06/11/2020 17:33

Oh sobsanta I am so, so, so sorry. There are no words. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Flowers

plinkyplonkyploo · 06/11/2020 17:33

I am so very sorry for your loss OP.

Henio · 06/11/2020 17:34

I don't even know what to write apart from I'm completely heartbroken for you all, sending so much love and support your way 💕

Squaffle · 06/11/2020 17:35

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss x

Marshyellow · 06/11/2020 17:35

So sorry to read your update OP, absolutely heartbreaking. I echo others, you will be in our thoughts Flowers

BoreOfWhabylon · 06/11/2020 17:35

I am so very sorry Flowers

graceelli121 · 06/11/2020 17:35

I don’t even know what to say except I am so so sorry.
My heart is breaking for you and your family. Sending love, prayers and a million virtual hugs 💖💙

Armi · 06/11/2020 17:36

Oh, how dreadfully, dreadfully sad. Thinking of you and your DH and your beautiful little girl. Flowers

madroid · 06/11/2020 17:36

When I had a series of bereavements one of the nest things someone did for me was to make me walk round and round the block. It helped take the energy out of my first grief and make the shock diminish.

I'm so very very sorry for you and your family sobsanta. My thoughts are with you. Flowers

Noidea2114 · 06/11/2020 17:36

Reading your update is so very very sad. I'm so sorry for you all.

Dinosaur01 · 06/11/2020 17:37

Oh god OP I cannot even imagine one tiny ounce of the pain you feel. You have my deepest deepest sympathy I am so so sorry for the loss of your darling daughter. Xxxx

ArabellaScott · 06/11/2020 17:37

I am so very sorry for your terrible loss. There are no words, but sending you my warmest wishes. Flowers

TheVeryThing · 06/11/2020 17:38

I am so very sorry for the devastating loss of your little girl. Thinking of you and your family.

lastminuteschoolsdotcom · 06/11/2020 17:38

sobsanta so very sorry to read your post. Thinking of you, your husband and your daughters tonight, and sending much love and strength your way

Pandamumium · 06/11/2020 17:38

I am so sorry for your loss.💐

Nanny0gg · 06/11/2020 17:38

@sobsanta

Reading my post seems so curt but we are utterly devastated. Being home without her feels wrong. We're surrounded by her things and her loss is everywhere.
I am so, so sorry Flowers
anothernamereally · 06/11/2020 17:39

So so sorry for your loss

Zebrahooves · 06/11/2020 17:40

I am so sorry for your loss 🕯

KedsAndTubeSocks · 06/11/2020 17:40

So sorry.
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MollyWindley · 06/11/2020 17:40

I am so very, very sorry sobsanta.

mommybear1 · 06/11/2020 17:41

I am so so sorry Thanks

cakeandchampagne · 06/11/2020 17:41

Flowers I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl.

almondfinger · 06/11/2020 17:41

Oh my God, You poor, poor family. What a horrific loss of your beautiful baby girl. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourselves. Flowers

stormy11 · 06/11/2020 17:42

I am so sorry for your loss. Flowers