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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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HairyFloppins · 06/11/2020 17:06

So Sorry for your loss.

MmmmWine · 06/11/2020 17:06

I’m so very sorry x

thebellsofsaintclements · 06/11/2020 17:08

I'm so so sorry OP, there are no words. Flowers

GU24Mum · 06/11/2020 17:08

I am so sorry OP - what a dreadful shock for you all and so sad that you have lost your lovely girl.

Itsagrandoldteam · 06/11/2020 17:08

Oh my god, I'm so sorry, I thought she was on the mend. So very sorry.

ontheslide · 06/11/2020 17:09

Oh my goodness.
I am so so sorry.
I have no words.
You will all be in my thoughts x

bearlyactive · 06/11/2020 17:09

OP, I am so shocked and so sorry for your loss Flowers

Coughsyrupsucks · 06/11/2020 17:09

I am so sorry for your loss

Lostinacloud · 06/11/2020 17:10

Oh OP, just awful. Such incredibly sad and shocking news. So very heartbroken for you and your DH. Please take care of yourselves as best you can Flowers

Salamander91 · 06/11/2020 17:11

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter Flowers

Lifeisforalimitedperiodonly · 06/11/2020 17:11

Just read your shocking and sad update. I am so sorry for you that this has happened. Take care of yourselves.xx

sakura06 · 06/11/2020 17:12

Oh my goodness, I'm so so sorry for your loss. Utterly heartbreaking. Thanks

Tearsfortiers · 06/11/2020 17:13

So very sorry. That's such shocking news. I can't imagine the pain you're going through. Hoping you have good support in real life. Thoughts are with you and your precious daughter.

MirandaWest · 06/11/2020 17:13

I am so sorry to hear this x

Missc2001 · 06/11/2020 17:13

So sorry for your loss OP Flowers

ineedaholidaynow · 06/11/2020 17:14

I am so sorry Flowers

MissGrayling · 06/11/2020 17:15

So very very sorry OP. Xx

MadinMarch · 06/11/2020 17:15

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Flowers. My thoughts are with you.

PinkFondantFancy · 06/11/2020 17:15

Oh my goodness I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending you so much love. I wish I had something more adequate I could say to you, what a terrible awful shock. Flowers

Minibea · 06/11/2020 17:15

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your darling girl

southernbelles · 06/11/2020 17:16

Oh my god I can't believe it, it's not very often my jaw drops & I get chills when reading MN but that's exactly what happened when reading your shocking & horrifying update. So unbelievably unexpected, I am so so very sorry, words can't even express Thanks love to you all x

TeddyIsaHe · 06/11/2020 17:16

Oh god op. Words will never be comfort enough, but I am sending strength and love to you and your family Flowers

ButtonMoonLoon · 06/11/2020 17:17

Oh I am so dreadfully sorry for you all, you must be in such utter shock. Sending you much love xx

peakygal · 06/11/2020 17:18

Oh OP this is so sad....Hugs to you xx

TableFlowerss · 06/11/2020 17:18

OP I know you’re probably not checking your MN at the moment as your head will be elsewhere.

I just wanted to say though, if you do come back here in the future, that people really do care.

After reading what you’re going through, you’ll most definitely be in my thoughts tonight and over the next few days and I’m sure others will feel the same.

People argue on here (and sites like this) about all sorts, but all of that is irrelevant. When reading a thread like this, it puts everything in to perspective.

This has definitely got to me in a way that not many threads could. I hope you find a way forward through this horrific experience and know that people (albeit strangers) are thinking of you.

Take card xxx

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