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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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Inastatus · 08/11/2020 20:13

I read the article about your beautiful girl. So loved and so very missed. I am so so sorry that you are going through this unimaginable hell. Keeping you in my thoughts.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 08/11/2020 20:20

So so sorry for your loss, it's not right at all.
Your Wyatt Rose is a beautiful little girl.
Sending my love xxx

Cantchooseaname · 08/11/2020 20:22

You are living every parents worst fear.
She looks like such a cheeky chap pie, as a stranger I can’t get my head around it. I have no idea how you do.
It’s lovely to hear about her, and I’m glad you have friends around you.
Look after yourselves.

houseofrabbits · 08/11/2020 20:38

I really have no words to add but I am thinking of you and your family xx

Pidgythe2nd · 08/11/2020 20:40

Thinking of you all and your lovely little girl.
I’m so sorry. X

EdwardCullensBiteOnTheSide · 08/11/2020 20:46

Thinking of you op Flowers

rumandbiscuits · 08/11/2020 20:57

I've been thinking about you and your LG everyday since I read your post. I know not everyone is but I am a very spiritual person and I believe your LG is with you everyday and always will be. She will keep you strong when you need to be and hold your hand when you cry. She will live on everyday in you and your partner and daughters. Until you meet again. All I can do is send my condolences to you all again ❤️ life is so cruel but she is safe with your Mum and your Gran - I really do believe this.

kate288 · 08/11/2020 21:13

Such a beautiful tribute to your little girl in that article ❤️ she was clearly so very loved by everyone who knew her which shows what an amazing Mummy you are. I haven't stopped thinking about you and your family today. Sending lots of love.

NeedToKnow101 · 08/11/2020 21:27

I'm so sorry 💔

babycakes1010 · 08/11/2020 21:34

I've just seen your article in the paper and aswell on here... I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful girl. I've funded £20 to your donations and just want you to no as a family we have you in our thoughts xx

kwaziseyepatch · 08/11/2020 21:37

Heartbroken for you, I'm so sorry.
I really really hope there's a heaven too ❤️
Beautiful girl. Thinking of you and your family

bearlyactive · 08/11/2020 21:39

Oh she will be remembered sobsanta. Flowers

Betsy86 · 08/11/2020 21:47

Im am so truly sorry for your loss. Sleep tight beautiful Wyatt Rose xxx

Kurtan · 08/11/2020 21:47

What a beautiful little girl ❤️
I am so sorry for yours and your family's loss, there are no words that will help.
Sleep tight, Wyatt 🤍

BertNErnie · 08/11/2020 21:48

I am absolutely heartbroken for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Sleep tight Wyatt xxx

latheritup · 08/11/2020 21:54

My heart breaks for you. I am so so so sorry to hear the update of your beautiful Wyatt Thanks

Napqueen1234 · 08/11/2020 21:56

OP this is heartbreaking. Thinking of you and your family in this cruel time. What a beautiful little girl joy just shines out of her 💕.

Dollygirl2008 · 08/11/2020 22:06

I don't think a Mumsnet post has ever made me feel so incredibly sad at how unfair this is. God bless your darling little girl. So sorry for your loss xxx

babbi · 08/11/2020 22:09

I’m so terribly sorry for your loss.
Wyatt was a gorgeous, happy little girl. Thank you for sharing your photos with us .
Sending my love to you all xx

DanceWMe · 08/11/2020 22:15

Truly heartbreaking!!! I am so sorry for your loss. Goodnight to your little sweetheart.

WanderlustWitch · 08/11/2020 22:27

Just read the article and caught up on the thread. You have a beautiful family sobsanta, my thoughts are still with you all x

RuudGullitOnAShed · 08/11/2020 22:33

What a beautiful little girl - I am so very sorry for your loss.

starrynight19 · 08/11/2020 22:36

Heartbreaking I have no words , so sorry. What a gorgeous tribute to your baby girl Flowers

HeyGirlHeyBoy · 08/11/2020 22:37

RIP Beautiful Wyatt. I'm so sorry to read of your horrific loss. Thinking of you. This happened my Mum's only sister, 80 years ago. Though I never met her she was often talked about and her portrait is on our wall. Wyatt will always be remembered. Flowers

Jinx2020 · 08/11/2020 22:46

I am so sorry for your loss and will say a prayer for your beautiful daughter. Heart breaking situation!