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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

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MotherFeeder · 08/11/2020 17:24

I am so unbelievably sorry for your loss and wish I could do something to make this better xx

Lifeispassingby · 08/11/2020 17:36

The song choice sounds perfect, hold the memories close as they will help you through the darkness you are facing for now

sobsanta · 08/11/2020 17:56

www.walesonline.co.uk/news/heartbreaking-tributes-paid-two-year-19243632 My incredible friends have spoken to WalesOnline about Wyatt. I'm so lucky to this is amazing group of friends who are doing everything while I'm unable to for her and us. I'd love it if you'd read about her 💛

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TableFlowerss · 08/11/2020 17:56

If she loves that song and can do all the actions then it will be a very fitting song for her.

I can’t stop thinking about you and your family. I keep checking to see if you’ve updated anything so I know that you’re keeping going.

I hope someone on the bereavement section can offer you some advice to help you through.

💞

sobsanta · 08/11/2020 17:57

I know it's outing but I'll NC one day. I just want her remembered.

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DragonLegs · 08/11/2020 18:02

She looks like a really happy girl, I can just imagine her singing that song! There’s no right or wrong way to give, be kind to yourself and let your body do it’s thing. I will be thinking of you and your family.

jusdepamplemousse · 08/11/2020 18:05

I’m so so sorry OP. You will find the strength.

Sleep in peace little Wyatt.

Lozxx · 08/11/2020 18:06

I'm so sorry for your loss, she is utterly beautiful 💜 I can't imagine your pain, be strong x

rubyslippers · 08/11/2020 18:07

I am so very sorry for your terrible loss x

flapjackfairy · 08/11/2020 18:09

What an amazing tribute to such a special little girl.
I am in tears again after reading that tribute on Welsh news.
You have such beautiful, happy girls. It is beyond cruel. I am so sad for you x

Daisymaze · 08/11/2020 18:13

What a beautiful tribute to your lovely Wyatt, thinking of you and your family OP Flowers

Mumdiva99 · 08/11/2020 18:18

I am so so sorry for your loss. Your daughter Wyatt was absolutely beautiful.

SquigglePigs · 08/11/2020 18:22

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Gorgeous pics of her.

Pebbledashery · 08/11/2020 18:25

Utterly utterly heartbreaking to read your update and these posts.. I can't even fathom how you're feeling but please know we are here for you and hope you have some amazing support in real life. Rest in peace beautiful girl. I'm so devastated for you all 😔😔😔😔😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Mollscroll · 08/11/2020 18:25

I’ve read it. How beautiful - and what a lovely family you are. I’m so sorry that this terrible event has struck you. Thinking of Wyatt Rose and of you all.

Pebbledashery · 08/11/2020 18:29

Literally crying my heart out reading the article on your beautiful baby girl. I can't even believe it. I am so so so sorry @sobsanta xxx

2018SoFarSoGreat · 08/11/2020 18:35

Wyatt Rose is as beautiful as her name. What a personality shines through all of the pictures. ❤️

isthismylifenow · 08/11/2020 18:37

Sleep peacefully beautiful little Wyatt Rose..

Love and light to you and all the family sobsanta.

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Shipwrecked2019 · 08/11/2020 19:09

Honestly can't stop thinking of you and your family. So sorry this happened to your lovely baby girl, sending love xxxxxx

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frustrationcentral · 08/11/2020 19:49

Such a beautiful girl

RIP little Wyatt x

HebeMumsnet · 08/11/2020 19:52

Evening, everyone. We're really sorry but we're afraid we have a policy of not allowing links to crowd funding sites on the boards on Mumsnet these days. In cases like this we'd love to make a special case but we think it's for the best. Obviously, it really breaks our hearts to delete those links on this occasion but we hope you understand why. Hopefully anyone who wishes to help out in this way can find the links themselves but we've had to remove the links on this thread.

We're all thinking of you here still. We've loved hearing all about your little girl and seeing the gorgeous photos of beautiful Wyatt Rose. Do keep posting as long as it helps. We hope you're as ok as can be expected. Flowers

Katjolo · 08/11/2020 20:03

So very sorry for your loss OP.

graceelli121 · 08/11/2020 20:06

Such a beautiful article, and an honouring tribute to such a well loved little angel.

I can’t keep you out of my thoughts @sobsanta. I’ve said a prayer for you all. 💐