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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

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Mishmased · 07/11/2020 20:44

@sobsanta

Her name is Wyatt Rose. We called her Woo and Bug. She was our last baby and so we opted to make Wyatt a gender neutral name even if it wasn't really. It suited her so well. Here's a photo taken just a few weeks ago. She was so full of life.
Fly high Wyatt Rose, fly with your angel wingsThanksThanksThanksThanks
KiriAndLou · 07/11/2020 20:56

Still thinking of you all. Sweet dreams, Wyatt. Flowers

ColaCubs · 07/11/2020 21:06

Sleep well little Wyatt Rose Thanks

timeforawine · 07/11/2020 21:08

Sleep well beautiful little princess.
Op i am so so sorry for you all. I cannot imagine how you must feel but i hope you can draw on the good memories to get you through ThanksThanksThanksThanksThanksThanks

msssm · 07/11/2020 21:10

Wyatt Rose is a wee cutie. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Sending all my love and strength to you, your husband and your daughters ❤️ x

booroo · 07/11/2020 21:14

I'm so so sorry, sleep tight your beautiful princess xx

worksleep · 07/11/2020 21:14

I am so very sorry for your loss. Thanks

ldnirish · 07/11/2020 21:16

Just read this entire thread and sobbed. I am so, so sorry.
Your little girl was so beautiful.
I am not particularly religious either, but I do believe in heaven.
Have just sent a word up to my mum and nan to keep a look out for her.
Sending lots of love and hugs to you, your husband and your other two girls xxx

BugCatcher879 · 07/11/2020 21:17

So sorry xxx

mumtobabygilrl · 07/11/2020 21:18

So sorry I have no words. Thinking of you

pennee · 07/11/2020 21:21

She indeed is beautiful and that wonderful smile melted me 🥰
I’ve lit a candle for you Wyatt Rose and your family are in my thoughts xxxx

AbsolutWitch · 07/11/2020 21:22

No words, just lots of love.

What a gorgeous little girl

Crunchiedelight · 07/11/2020 21:27

I’m so very sorry for your devastating loss, what a beautiful little girl. Sleep well Wyatt Rose Flowers

ZZGirl · 07/11/2020 21:33

I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how you all must be feeling

Aragog · 07/11/2020 21:35

@sobsanta

We've decided she's just sleeping, she's not gone so we're going to have 'Night night love you' on her stone which is what we'd say every night and was her cue for bed. We'd ask it as a question and say it as a statement. I want to remember that forever.

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Oh I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. Your beautiful little Wyatt Rose. It's so unfair, you're right.

Night night Wyatt x

lapufalina · 07/11/2020 21:35

I am so devastated for you and your family.

Words are hard to come by, as I was in your antenatal group on here and post natal on fb until a couple of months ago and your girl was very special. I can't imagine what you're going through but hope you can take some comfort from your friends on here and in real life.
Sending love xx

Xmasfairy86 · 07/11/2020 21:35

Oh she’s beautiful OP!

So so sorry for your loss Flowers - can’t put into words what I want to convey, just know that you’re not alone and you’re in all our thoughts x

Rosesarere · 07/11/2020 21:37

I am so sorry for your devastating loss, my thoughts are with you and your family.

RiaOverTheRainbow · 07/11/2020 21:45

Thinking of you and Wyatt Rose Flowers

Annabanana455 · 07/11/2020 21:45

So very, very sorry Flowers

Hellothere19999 · 07/11/2020 21:45

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry. God bless you all and I will say a prayer x 💙

Igmum · 07/11/2020 22:03

So sorry OP, what a beautiful girl ❤️💐

Bajalaluna · 07/11/2020 22:06

Can't begin to imagine how you feel op. Just completely and utterly devastating. My heart is aching reading this thread, and I can't stop crying. So so sorry for what you're going through. Xx

ChinOfThanos · 07/11/2020 22:14

Sending lots of love and hugs @sobsanta I have no words. Thanks

Bluemascara4 · 07/11/2020 22:16

ThanksThanks she's beautiful. I'm so so sorry xxxx

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