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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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LabradorGalore · 07/11/2020 15:18

Wyatt Rose such a beautiful girl. I’m so sorry for your loss OP. I can feel your love for her pouring out of you posts, but also your pain.

Holding your family and daughter in my prayers today.

toriaplum · 07/11/2020 15:19

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. x Flowers

Mads123 · 07/11/2020 15:20

She is so beautiful, im so so sorry. You have been and are in my thoughts.

Lifeispassingby · 07/11/2020 15:21

What a shock for you all and what immense pain you must be feeling. Know that we are all thinking of you and you are in our thoughts and prayers xx

Doyouknow · 07/11/2020 15:23

She is so so beautiful. Her hair, gorgeous eyes, just perfect. My thoughts are with you and her dad. And all my love to the little one.

Dovesandkisses · 07/11/2020 15:33

So so sorry. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you must be going through.

lorisparkle · 07/11/2020 16:09

Such beautiful photographs, thank you so much for sharing them with us. It is absolutely heartbreaking hearing what you have gone through. So important to celebrate her life. The charity Winston's Wish is excellent and particularly supports young people who have lost someone close to them. All our thoughts are with you xxx

Rockandgrohl · 07/11/2020 16:18

I am so unbelievably sorry for your loss. Wyatt will forever be in the hearts and minds of everyone in the babies of september2018 xxxxx

Yipitsme · 07/11/2020 16:26

So much love to you,woke up thinking if your little girlxx

Henio · 07/11/2020 16:30

Absolutely beautiful little girl 💕

WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants · 07/11/2020 16:35

(((HUG)))

Heartbreaking, I am so, so, sorry xxx

Thank you so much for sharing your photos with us, I wish I could have known her, she looks adorable, cuddly & cheeky!

Your post didn't sound 'curt' you just sounded (understandably) in shock. You're amongst friends here, you don't need to put a face on.

Big love to ALL of you
Xxx

I'm going to go & find a lovely candle & light it. Oh & believing in heaven is good. I don't do religion, but I choose to believe there's a 'heaven' and I know she'll be loved & looked after until you get there, there are some incredible people there already xxx

WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants · 07/11/2020 16:38

Maybe MNHQ have asked you already? but just in case they haven't, if you want to, you can report your thread & ask them to move it into bereavement.

ASunshineyDay · 07/11/2020 17:57

Oh my god that is too awful. I am so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl Wyatt Thanks

justaweeone · 07/11/2020 18:19

Thinking of you all 💗

dinosnorezzzz · 07/11/2020 18:25

Wyatt is such a beautiful little girl. I really hope you are able to get some answers @sobsanta how are your other DC handling everything? Thinking of you all x

AvoidingRealHumans · 07/11/2020 18:34

Such a beautiful little girl. I have no words but wanted you to know you are in my thoughts, I hope you find the strength to get you through.
Thinking of you and your family at this awful time. I hope you get the answers that you need.
Take care of yourself x

Whenwillow · 07/11/2020 19:02

I too will light a candle for your gorgeous little girl. You will be in my thoughts.
Much love to you and your family Flowers

sobsanta · 07/11/2020 19:14

We've decided she's just sleeping, she's not gone so we're going to have 'Night night love you' on her stone which is what we'd say every night and was her cue for bed. We'd ask it as a question and say it as a statement. I want to remember that forever.

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Hailtomyteeth · 07/11/2020 19:22

gratefulness.org/light-a-candle

I've 'lit a candle' here sometimes. Perhaps it's something we could do.

MrDarcysMa · 07/11/2020 19:23

Thank you for sharing photos op, like everybody else I've been thinking of your family all day. I hope you can feel the love of hundreds of strangers coming your way.
What a beautiful girl she is, I've just lit a candle for beautiful Wyatt. Sleep tight ❤️

GintyMarlow2 · 07/11/2020 19:28

I am so so sorry for your devastating loss. She was a beautiful little girl and this shouldn't have happened. Flowers

CaptainCallisto · 07/11/2020 19:37

I've lit a candle for Wyatt Rose and said a prayer for her (which I hope was ok). I am thinking of you and your family Flowers

Crappyfridays7 · 07/11/2020 19:38

Such a beautiful little girl the world is so so cruel, once again am heartbroken for you
You’re all In my thoughts

Wowcherarestalkingme · 07/11/2020 19:55

What a beautiful little girl, my heart is utterly broken for you xxx

IRIELADY · 07/11/2020 20:22

She's gorgeous. I have a candle burning bright x