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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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Babymamaroon · 07/11/2020 12:48

Sleep tight gorgeous little Wyatt. Sending you all love and strength at the most devastating time xx

EvaporatedHour · 07/11/2020 12:54

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. Sending lots of love to you and your family. You are all in my thoughts xxx

Ihaveyourback · 07/11/2020 12:55

Op, Wyatt Rose will stay as beautiful and precious forever now. She is an absolute angel. I am sending you the love, light and prayer to get you all through this - we all are Flowers

Mylittlepony374 · 07/11/2020 13:04

My thoughts are with you and Wyatt Roses Dad and siblings. Heartbreaking.

CatRamsey · 07/11/2020 13:15

OP I gasped out loud at your update, I'm so so sorry. Wyatt Rose is beautiful, thank you for sharing her pictures with us. You are all in my thoughts. This world is so, so cruel. Flowers

Itsabeautifuldaytosavelives · 07/11/2020 13:17

I am so sorry for your loss OP. I echo the PP, this is one of the most heartbreaking things I’ve ever seen on here, I did not expect your update.

Thank you for sharing her with us, she is such a beautiful little girl. I will be thinking of you and your family as you navigate this time.

RogueV · 07/11/2020 13:26

Rest in peace beautiful girl

BertiesLanding · 07/11/2020 13:55

Hamba kakuhle, ntombazana.

Go well, little one.

Flowers Wyatt Rose Flowers

Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.
sobsanta · 07/11/2020 14:09

I've been going through my Instagram getting every story, every post, every photo I can find in one place. I love this one. She's making a mockery of my cleaning here and looking wide eyed and innocent at everything.

Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.
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maverickallthetime · 07/11/2020 14:15

What a beautiful little girl. I'm so sorry you are going through this and hope you get some answers. There are no words that can help at this truly awful time

Someonesayroadtrip · 07/11/2020 14:19

I'm so so sorry OP. What a beautiful little girl. You must all be in such shock. So so sorry xxx

Tyranttoddler · 07/11/2020 14:20

@sobsanta

I've been going through my Instagram getting every story, every post, every photo I can find in one place. I love this one. She's making a mockery of my cleaning here and looking wide eyed and innocent at everything.
I love her little bunches. She looks so cheeky and sweet.
Cheesey21 · 07/11/2020 14:22

This has completely shook me to the core. Your girl is beautiful. Sending you all so much love and strength 💜

AnneShirleysNewDress · 07/11/2020 14:27

@sobsanta I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'll light a candle for Wyatt Rose tonight. Sending you and your family love and strength Thanks

BigBadBoom · 07/11/2020 14:27

I am so, so sorry for you all, and for your beautiful girl. How unbelievably awful and unfair 😢

Rowgtfc72 · 07/11/2020 14:28

What a beautiful girl. Shes brought a smile to a lot of faces on here today.
So very very sorry for your loss.
Thinking of you and your family. Flowers

anditfreezesme · 07/11/2020 14:30

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all.

unkindnessofravens · 07/11/2020 14:36

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter Thanks

Ohwhatbliss · 07/11/2020 14:47

I am so desperately sorry for your loss. Words are inadequate at this time. I also have a 2 year old daughter and I cannot imagine the hell you are going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers

WindsorBlues · 07/11/2020 14:51
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Dixywitch19 · 07/11/2020 14:58

I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you ❤️

Incacat2 · 07/11/2020 14:59

So sorry. I cannot imagine your pain. What a little darling. Xxx

NeverhaveIever2020 · 07/11/2020 15:06

I am so sorry for your loss, Wyatt Rose was beautiful. Please look after yourselves. You and your family are in my thoughts xx

MadDoggoLady · 07/11/2020 15:11

Such a beautiful little baby girl. My heart it with you and your family. Wyatt Rose will not be forgotten Daffodil

ZigZaggyZoo · 07/11/2020 15:16

Beautiful Woo 💖 I am so truly sorry for your loss, utterly heart breaking