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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

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shreddednips · 06/11/2020 20:57

I'm so sorry OP. Sending love to you and your family x

sarahC40 · 06/11/2020 20:59

This news is so terrible, op and I’m so sorry for you all. God, what else can anyone say? I hope that you have good rl suppport to lean on.

foxfox · 06/11/2020 21:01

I am so, so sorry.

Cauterize · 06/11/2020 21:05

Oh OP this is devastating news. Your family are in my thoughts tonight

kate288 · 06/11/2020 21:05

I am so unbelievably sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl. Sending so much love to you and your family, I won't stop thinking about you all ❤️

oneglassandpuzzled · 06/11/2020 21:07

I am so sorry. This is beyond words.

nocoolnamesleft · 06/11/2020 21:17

I am so very sorry. There are no words. Winston's Wish www.winstonswish.org is another charity that provide support for children who have suffered a tragic loss.

lorisparkle · 06/11/2020 21:31

I am so sorry for your loss xx

madcow88 · 06/11/2020 21:32

I am so so so sorry. What a strong family you are... 💕

Bloodylegoeverywhere · 06/11/2020 21:33

I am so sorry for the loss of your little one.

Penny31 · 06/11/2020 21:40

I don’t know what to say. There are no words. I am so so sorry that this has happened and I’m sending love, hugs and strength to your beautiful family.

poachedeggsandmushrooms · 06/11/2020 21:44

Oh dear God. How horrendous for you, there are no words ThanksThanksThanks

Ismellphantoms · 06/11/2020 21:46

I keep thinking about you and know that no words are adequate.

titsaleena · 06/11/2020 21:47

I'm so sorry Thanks I can't fathom how life can be this cruel

I'm not religious but I'm praying that there is a heaven and that your beautiful little girl is there xxx

Cityzen74 · 06/11/2020 21:49

I am so sorry for your devastating loss Flowers

userxx · 06/11/2020 21:53

There's aren't words big enough. I'm so sorry.

PinkJellycat · 06/11/2020 21:57

Op I am so so sorry for the loss of your lovely girl.

PicnicPie · 06/11/2020 22:00

I am so sorry for your unbearable loss

LadyWithLapdog · 06/11/2020 22:02

I am so sorry 🥀

confusedpombear · 06/11/2020 22:03

I'm so sorry for your loss Thanks

Thisgirlcanrun · 06/11/2020 22:04

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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.
Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.
BridgetJonesDaiquiri · 06/11/2020 22:05

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband Thanks

Tunnocksmallow · 06/11/2020 22:10
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TiddyTid · 06/11/2020 22:17

So so sorry. Flowers

mum2bin2021 · 06/11/2020 22:18

Absolutely horrific, I can't comprehend what you must be going through right now. I am so, so sorry for your loss. X