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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

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wizzler · 06/11/2020 20:21

So sorry. Unimaginable Thanks

ClaudiaWinklepants · 06/11/2020 20:22

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you all. Sending you love and strength Thanks

shamalidacdak · 06/11/2020 20:24

So very sorry for your loss Thanks

RunFromMyScytheAndMyMerkin · 06/11/2020 20:29

I am so terribly sorry. I have never read anything and gasped then cried on here. How shocking.
I hope you are ok, please be strong xxx

Harvey3 · 06/11/2020 20:31

I'm so so horrendously sorry for your loss. There are no words.

CrotchetyQuaver · 06/11/2020 20:34

So very sorry to read your update, life can be so cruel. Thinking of you all Thanks

Busydrinkingcoffee1 · 06/11/2020 20:38

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss, there are no words, thoughts with you and your family

rumandbiscuits · 06/11/2020 20:39

Oh my goodness OP I am so so sorry Sad you poor thing. I can't even imagine. Sending you so much love. My thoughts are with you and your LG Thanks

MissCadoganTate · 06/11/2020 20:39

I'm so so sorry for you and your family x

EdwardCullensBiteOnTheSide · 06/11/2020 20:39

I am in total shock reading this op I am so so sorry, life is absolutely so cruel, please take care, Rip little one FlowersFlowersFlowers

MaelyssQ · 06/11/2020 20:40

Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family. May you find comfort together in your grief.

livesimpledreambig · 06/11/2020 20:41

I am so so sorry about your tragic loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Pinklittle · 06/11/2020 20:43

So so sorry xx

runwithme · 06/11/2020 20:45

I don't have the words. OP, I am so very sorry. xx

Bleughbleughbleugh12 · 06/11/2020 20:45

💐

lunar1 · 06/11/2020 20:48

I'm so sorry 💕

tortoiseshell1985 · 06/11/2020 20:49

Shocked beyond words what a dreadful tragedy. So very sorry

Strawberrycreamsundae · 06/11/2020 20:49

Utterly heartbreaking, so, so sad 💐

Meanameicallmyself20 · 06/11/2020 20:50

No words. Totally shocking. I am so sorry. Sending love and prayers for you and your little one. Xxxxxx

ASchuylerSister · 06/11/2020 20:51

I’m so sorry Flowers

Q1w2e3 · 06/11/2020 20:52

I am so sorry for your loss xx

Posteni1 · 06/11/2020 20:52

I am so very very sorry for your devastating loss. There are no words at all. Wishing you every strength at this terrible time.

MonicaGhouler · 06/11/2020 20:52

I'm heartbroken for you. Thinking of you all and your beautiful DD tonight

Msfoxy17 · 06/11/2020 20:52

Like all others here I'm just in total shock. I may not know you but I feel so desperately sad reading this. I can't quite believe something like this can happen it's so awful. I know it wont take away any of the the pain but please know we are all thinking of you.

AwFeebs · 06/11/2020 20:52

I'm so sorry. 💐