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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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whataballbag · 06/11/2020 18:08

I am so, so sorry. There's just no words. Sending you all so much love.

Billericaydicky · 06/11/2020 18:19

Oh I'm so so sorry, you and your husband are in my thoughts.

DPotter · 06/11/2020 18:20

You poor things - I am so sorry. sending much love

MarshaBradyo · 06/11/2020 18:21

Oh my goodness I am so sorry

Iwantalonglie · 06/11/2020 18:21

There are no words. I am just so so sorry. Thinking of you all.

jessticker · 06/11/2020 18:23

I just, cried, when I saw your update. Stomach lurching utter shock.....I am just utterly heartbroken for you, your husband and other children as will everyone that reads this...I'm just so so sorry, I wish I could take your pain away xxxxxxxxxx

LittleDoritt · 06/11/2020 18:25

I'm so so sorry. I have no words adequate.

ihatesandpits · 06/11/2020 18:27

I have absolutely no words. I am so, so sorry.
Thanks

Torri67 · 06/11/2020 18:29

I am so terribly, terribly sorry for your loss SobSanta.
I know words will not offer comfort now so I'm just sending much love to you and your family.

IncludeWomenInTheSequel · 06/11/2020 18:29

Oh I am so sorry. The shock must be overwhelming and you still have two children to look after...

God I don't have anything useful to say. Thanks

Yamaya · 06/11/2020 18:32

I don't know what to say.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you going through right now. Flowers Flowers Flowers

Avondklok · 06/11/2020 18:35

So very sorry!

Cliffdonville · 06/11/2020 18:37

I'm so very sorry x

RaininSummer · 06/11/2020 18:37

So incredibly sad to read this.

Inastatus · 06/11/2020 18:40

I’m heartbroken for you OP. RIP little one. Flowers

ToadCandle · 06/11/2020 18:40

I am so very very sorry for your loss and I know those words are totally inadequate.

elliejjtiny · 06/11/2020 18:41

I am so sorry xxx

Ewandreams · 06/11/2020 18:43

I'm so so sorry for your loss, this is truly heartbreaking. My deepest condolences.

hockeysticks89 · 06/11/2020 18:45

Oh, I'm so sorry to read this. I am thinking of you all, there are no words xxxx

Happymama24 · 06/11/2020 18:51

I am very sorry x

dixiedo · 06/11/2020 18:52

OP so sorry for your loss. You're allowed to be angry. It's just not fair. Thinking of your whole family. X

itssquidstella · 06/11/2020 18:55

Oh my god OP I'm so so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

cosmo30 · 06/11/2020 18:59

I have to say that was a massive shock to read. I am so so sorry for your loss I can't even begin to imagine the pain you must be feeling

frustrationcentral · 06/11/2020 19:00

Goodness what a terrible update Sad. I'm so sorry OP my thoughts are with you x

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 06/11/2020 19:03

I am so unbelievably sad and sorry for you all. Sending you all the love and strength I have.