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Lemon's Mum

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lemonzest123 · 14/09/2016 11:37

Hi MNers,

Thanks for tipping me off about the message limit on my other thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/2725008-Would-any-MNers-be-able-to-help-tonight?pg=1&order=

I am stunned and unbelievably humbled to see that one little post I wrote sparked 1000 messages, and Im so appreciative of all you personal stories and jokes to cheer me up.

MN is offically amazing and you're all fantastic.

DM had a rough night, she apparently woke in the night with a bad headache which I think confirmed the disease has moved into her head (we expected this, apparently what's causing the paralysis often appears in the brain too). Still no appetite and sleeping all the time.

Sad

Hope everyone had a good night. I had yet more nightmares - theyre all about Mum and they all horrible. Shouty I is in fine voice this morning. Dad said he heard Shouty I bellowing to Shouty II to shut up the other day. Pot, meet kettle Hmm

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lemonzest123 · 02/10/2016 17:42

Thanks lovely friends of Lemon.

Ive put it out of my mind for now as I dont want DMs funal hours to be clouded with this shit. If either attempts a follow up with anything other than the bank details they'll get a swift "fuck off".

Tea lady here is so lovely, she just made us all drinks and brought biccies.

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Poptart27 · 02/10/2016 17:55

Arghhh Lemon. I am fuming with rage over your situation. People are so fucking selfish sometimes. Your "friends" are not friends. They are selfish twats. Get rid of now and focus on what's important, your DM and those who are truly showing their support.

ohfourfoxache · 02/10/2016 17:57

Please sweetheart, don't doubt yourself. Not now, not ever. At the very least, not when it comes to these leeches.

How are you all doing today?

boo2410 · 02/10/2016 18:08

Fuck off!!! Hmmm wonder if they'll get the hint? Grin Grin Grin Enjoy your tea and biccies. Flowers Flowers

ohfourfoxache · 02/10/2016 19:27

Arf @boo Grin

Fanlightfanny · 02/10/2016 19:56

Enjoy your Brew Lemon & have a peaceful night all of you.

saffronwblue · 02/10/2016 21:29

Yay for the tea lady. Put your crap friends out of your mind, Lemon. Hope there is some peace tonight for you all.

Allatseainthemidlands · 02/10/2016 22:07

Good night lemon. Hoping it is peaceful, whatever it brings. Praying for you all Flowers

boobyooby · 02/10/2016 22:19

As everyone else has said, ignore your so-called friends, we can all revisit this later. For now let's concentrate on your mum, dad and you - enjoy your cuppa, what biscuits are there? Chocolate digestive I hope Flowers

whitehandledkitchenknife · 02/10/2016 22:28

Off to bed now Lemon - early start tomorrow. Gentle hugs for you all. Enjoy those biccies.

lemonzest123 · 02/10/2016 22:31

Nurse says we'll lose her tonight. Having teary chats with DF and DBro and holding her hand.

If I don't update for a bit you know why.

Big fat massive THANK YOU to every single one of you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Queenbean · 02/10/2016 22:33

Oh lemon, lots of love and hugs for you tonight. I hope she goes peacefully and you've got lots of hugs and support in real life

Nest of vipers here to support you always xxxx

maybethedayafter · 02/10/2016 22:34

Thinking of you and your family Lemon. We'll be here for you whenever you need/want us.

bookbook · 02/10/2016 22:35

Courage , thoughts and prayers winging to you

Hueandcry · 02/10/2016 22:35

My heart breaks for you. Stay strong xx

Lukeandlorelai4Ever · 02/10/2016 22:36

Flowersthinking of you

VanillaSugarandChristmasSpice · 02/10/2016 22:36

Oh bless.... thinking of you xx

FarelyKnuts · 02/10/2016 22:38

Thoughts and love with you all Flowers

Quietlygoingmad67 · 02/10/2016 23:10

Lemon - you and your family will be in my thoughts again tonight -
Will be holding your hand - be brave X

ohfourfoxache · 02/10/2016 23:26

Oh my darling Lemon Sad

Wishing you strength and courage Thanks

Mummy Lemon, you sound like a wonderful lady who has raised a wonderful, brave and devoted daughter. Thank you for showing her how to inspire and care for others as you have done yourself. Sleep tight, God bless xx

Soupandasandwich · 02/10/2016 23:32

Sending you love and strength. Flowers

Florathefern · 02/10/2016 23:56

Oh Lemon, wishing you added strength tonight. I am thinking of you always.

Mrs Lemon - may you have a gentle painfree passing, sleep safe, sleep sound xx

Quietlygoingmad67 · 02/10/2016 23:57

ohfor
Beautiful words

icklekid · 03/10/2016 00:00

Nothing to add except you are firmly in my prayers. Flowers

boo2410 · 03/10/2016 00:27

Lemon, nothing to say, thinking of you all, May darling Mum go peacefully with all you love surrounding her. Flowers Flowers

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