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DH is dying

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WhereDoAllTheCalculatorsGo · 14/02/2015 03:11

I don't even know what topic to put this in. My DH had a brain haemorrhage yesterday morning, the doctors have said it's not survivable. He's 60 years old and my best friend as well as my husband, we've been married for 23 years. I was sat at the bedside in ICU yesterday thinking that I wasn't going to post on mumsnet, even though like a lot of us I spend quite a bit of time here and feel like part of the community, but at 3 o'clock in the morning when you're all alone it seems like a good idea.
I got sent home from the hospital 'to try to get some sleep'.

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iseenodust · 14/02/2015 17:28

Donation is a wonderful act at an incredibly sad time.
So sorry. Flowers

VivaLeBeaver · 14/02/2015 17:30

I'm so sorry, thinking of you and your DC.

Stoatystoat · 14/02/2015 17:31

I am so sorry.

What a kind and generous thing you have done at such a horrific time.

IsabellaofFrance · 14/02/2015 17:33

So sorry for your loss Calculators.

Thank you for thinking of others at such a sad time and agreeing to organ donation Thanks

Cocolepew · 14/02/2015 17:34
Flowers
DramaAlpaca · 14/02/2015 17:35

So sorry to hear this calculators. My thoughts are with you and your family Flowers

MyCatIsAStupidBastard · 14/02/2015 17:37

I am very sorry for your terrible loss.

Thinking of you and your DC.

x

IHeartRosPoldark · 14/02/2015 17:38

thinking of you, sorry for your loss xxxxx

JaneByName · 14/02/2015 17:38

I am so sorry for your loss calculators. Hoping that you find much love and support in the difficult times to come. Your dh has given a wonderful gift to many, many people by donating his organs, what a generous man.

ModernToss · 14/02/2015 17:39

So sorry. Wishing you strength and comfort.

FirstOfficerDouglasRichardson · 14/02/2015 17:39

Calculators I am so, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

merlotbythefire · 14/02/2015 17:40

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family Flowers

PeteCampbellsRecedingHairline · 14/02/2015 17:41

Thinking of you and your children.

Flowers
Gatekeeper · 14/02/2015 17:41

You poor lamb; I am so sorry this has happened to you and your family

Sitting in front of the fire thinking of you ; it must all seem so surreal at the moment and you must be exhausted. Please look after yourself

Xxx

Slippersandacuppa · 14/02/2015 17:42

Oh no, Calculators, so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm thinking of you all. I hope you find some comfort soon - we are all thinking of you Flowers

NormHonal · 14/02/2015 17:43

So so sorry x

MagratsHair · 14/02/2015 17:44

I'm sorry for your loss Thanks Thanks Thanks

fussychica · 14/02/2015 17:48

So sorry for your terrible loss. Thinking of you and your children Flowers

OneStepCloser · 14/02/2015 17:50

I`m so sorry, much love to you and your children Flowers

Dumbledoresgirl · 14/02/2015 17:56

Oh WhereDoAllTheCalculatorsGo. I'm so very sorry. Flowers

BradfordMum · 14/02/2015 17:56

I too, am so sorry to read this.
Please take some comfort from knowing there will be a family somewhere getting a call which will change their life for the better, all because you cared enough to consider others, not just yourself.
We are all here for you x x x

RichTeaAreCrap · 14/02/2015 18:02

I am so sorry for your loss what a shock and such a terrible thing to happen to you. My heart goes out to you.

What a wonderful person you are to think of donating your DHs organs to help others xxx

DiaryOfAWimpyMum · 14/02/2015 18:06

So sorry Flowers

afreshstartplease · 14/02/2015 18:07

Thinking of you and your family op Flowers

NorbertDentressangle · 14/02/2015 18:09

I'm so sorry to hear this.

Thinking of you and your family.