DH is dying

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I don't even know what topic to put this in. My DH had a brain haemorrhage yesterday morning, the doctors have said it's not survivable. He's 60 years old and my best friend as well as my husband, we've been married for 23 years. I was sat at the bedside in ICU yesterday thinking that I wasn't going to post on mumsnet, even though like a lot of us I spend quite a bit of time here and feel like part of the community, but at 3 o'clock in the morning when you're all alone it seems like a good idea.
I got sent home from the hospital 'to try to get some sleep'.

So very sorry.

I have no experience at all of organ donation but I wanted to say thank you. It was a brave decision and one I can't imagine having to nake at such a difficult time.

You will be in my thoughts, much love xxx

I'm so sorry.

There are lots of us on mumsnet thinking of you x

I'm so sorry to read this. There aren't any words that are good enough, but I wish you peace and strength. Thinking of you.

I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. I wish there was something I could do or say that would be of some use. I hope you are getting some support from this thread.

So sorry to hear about this, OP. Hope you and your DC are OK & can find the strength to cope with this tradegy .

Our lives have been touched twice by the amazing actions of organ donors. In the midst of this darkness you've allowed a beautiful thing to happen.

I'm so, so sorry x

I am so very sorry calculators, I will be thinking of you and your children and your husband and lighting a candle for you all tonight

So very sad but I won't be the only one who will be proud that you've donated organs...so others won't suffer as much as you all are suffering
I hope you get support at this sad time

So sorry for your loss. How selfless of you and your family to think of others.

This is just dreadful, I am so sorry for what you are going through xxx

Calc So sorry, you are all in my thoughts x

Sending you and your children love.

Sorry for your loss x

Bless your heart,I'm so sorry to hear of your sad loss.

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. As so many others have said, you've done a truly wonderful thing in consenting to the organ donation. Lots of love to you and your family.

Oh where love, I'm so so sorry. All I can do from here is send you virtual hugs, but on the off chance you're in Norfolk, I'll gladly be your friend and I'll bring wine.pm me, I'll be there. Lots of love x

So sorry for your loss. X

Sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

so sorry.

I have prayed for you.

Sorry for your loss, thinking of you at this difficult time. I hope you find comfort in DH's organ donations x

I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

Your wonderful DH has given such a precious gift by allowing his organs to give others a second chance at life. Without people like your husband, my grandfather would never have lived long enough to see my son enter this world, when he eventually passed he said he was grateful and forever indebted to those who gave their last so he could spend a few more precious years with the ones he cherished the most. Please try to take comfort in this. I have nothing but respect and admiration for those willing to think of others whilst in the throes of something so devastating.

Wishing your family strength, love and peace and this horrifically difficult time.

Thinking of you here.

I'm so sorry calculators.
You are so brave for agreeing to donate your husbands organs and thank you for doing this. I hope it will bring you some comfort in the future to know your husband has helped keep someone else alive (probably more than one person in fact)
Take things slowly, remember to eat and drink and take any offers of help you get.