UPDATE ON YORKIEGIRL

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HI ALL, YG IS HOME SAFELY BUT IS OBVIOUSLY BUSY ORGANISING THINGS. I SAW HER AND THE GIRLS TODAY AND THEY ARE DOING REALLY WELL CONSIDERING. SHE AGAIN COMMENTED ON HOW OVERWHELMED SHE IS WITH EVERYONES GENEROSITY AND SUPPORT ON MN - I AM SURE WHEN SHE HAS TIME SHE WILL SPEAK FOR HERSELF. SHE IS JUST VERY BUSY AT THE MOMENT AS NIGEL IS NOT HOME YET AND SO SHE HAS SO MUCH TO ORGANISE.
THE DONATIONS FROM YOU ALL WILL COME IN REALLY USEFUL AND SHE ALREADY HAS SOME PLANS ON HOW SHE CAN USE IT WHICH WILL HELP HER OUT IN A BIG WAY WITH THE ORGANISING OF THINGS IN THE NEXT DAYS/WEEKS.
TAKE CARE EVERYONE X

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I hope you are able to support each other YG. Big hugs!

YG I hope you are ok xx

Have been away for 3 weeks so so sorry for not having posted.
Am so terribly sorry for your loss, words cannot convey what I wish they could.
The website thay Olihan mentions is worth a look at some point. I knew Charlie and Kate (who set up the website) as Charlie had been on my ward in hospital. I have also read her book which I found very moving.
You and your girls are in my thoughts.

What truly beautiful girls you have.
Do they look like their daddy? I like to think you can see lots of him in them, both in the way they look and the way they are. That must be a great comfort.

Thinking of you, lots. Wish there was more i could do.
Much love to you and your girls, TC xx

YG and tj, I hope you will both be able to look at the website linked in Olihan's post (merrywidow.co.uk ) - I've just read some of it, it is a lovely helpful site and much of it is very moving.

Anna, will be thinking of you tomorrow (tuesday) hope it all goes ok and you can gain strentgh from your beautiful girls. Take care

You and the girls will be in my thoughts tomorrow YG.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls tomorrow.

Beautiful girls. Praying for all of you. xxx

Thinking of you and your girls and praying for strength and peace for all of you in this truly desperate and difficult time.

Thank you for the updates. Continuing to pray. [hugs] xxxx

i will second the the WAY foundation suggestion made by toofatmum my mother-in-law was one of the founding members and help it to grow into the wonderful support network it now is, if you want any further info Yorkiegirl then let me know

Was it the funeral today? I hope it went as well as it could.

yorkiegirl I don't even know you, yet i've been thinking of you and your girls all day.

Today must have been one of the hardest days of your life.

I really don't know what else to say, except that my thoughts are with you at this very sad time in your life. xx

Beautiful girls, what a credit to you both. I am so sorry for your loss you are in my thoughts at this sad time. I have been catching up tonight and I think your dd1 is of to school soon? Good luck to her if she is.

Dearest Yorkiegirl,
I have been away, but knew about Nigel, your girls are so very beautiful and thru them Nigel lives on. I so wish there was more we could do to help. You have a long road ahead of you, but the love of family and friends will help you when you feel you cannot take another step. I am still travelling on my new road, its been so very hard at times, but it has brought me new and wonderful things, 12 years ago I would never have believed that. Sending you the strongest hug I can, brave lady xxxxxxxxx