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UPDATE ON YORKIEGIRL

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helsi · 15/08/2006 21:09

HI ALL, YG IS HOME SAFELY BUT IS OBVIOUSLY BUSY ORGANISING THINGS. I SAW HER AND THE GIRLS TODAY AND THEY ARE DOING REALLY WELL CONSIDERING. SHE AGAIN COMMENTED ON HOW OVERWHELMED SHE IS WITH EVERYONES GENEROSITY AND SUPPORT ON MN - I AM SURE WHEN SHE HAS TIME SHE WILL SPEAK FOR HERSELF. SHE IS JUST VERY BUSY AT THE MOMENT AS NIGEL IS NOT HOME YET AND SO SHE HAS SO MUCH TO ORGANISE.
THE DONATIONS FROM YOU ALL WILL COME IN REALLY USEFUL AND SHE ALREADY HAS SOME PLANS ON HOW SHE CAN USE IT WHICH WILL HELP HER OUT IN A BIG WAY WITH THE ORGANISING OF THINGS IN THE NEXT DAYS/WEEKS.
TAKE CARE EVERYONE X

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puff · 15/08/2006 23:12

They are fabulous girls Yorkie.

EllieK · 15/08/2006 23:12

no words can help you i'm sure but your girls truly are beautiful, you can see the sunshine in their faces x

zazas · 15/08/2006 23:35

So very sorry for your loss. I know that the joy of your beautiful girls is of comfort to you during this time..... and wishing you all love for the future.

Cam · 16/08/2006 00:19

They are dolls, YG

Lots of love, Cam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

(I also have 2 dd's - they're the best)

marthamoo · 16/08/2006 00:25

Oh YG, sitting here with tears rolling down my face at your montage of your gorgeous girls. Have no words..but if we can do anything to help, please ask. I'm just so very sorry.

BudaBabe · 16/08/2006 04:04

Oh YG as you aleady know you have BEAUTIFUL girls. Nigel will always be around through them although I know you just want him here and now. Unfortunately nothing any of us can say will make it better but we are all here for you whenever.

Hugs

KristinaM · 16/08/2006 05:00

YG I dont know what to say....except I'm so sorry

katierocket · 16/08/2006 07:15

YG they are truly gorgeous. You poor poor thing. Thinking of you.

whimsy · 16/08/2006 07:25

Your girls are truly Beautiful,Yorkiegirl. Your DH has left you two precious gifts. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Auntymandy · 16/08/2006 07:26

Your girls are beautiful and they will keep you going. Nigel lives on for as long as his memory is kept alive, talk about him as often as you can. Let the girls talk about him too. You are strong and wonderful and I am sure you are doing all the right things.
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Twinkie1 · 16/08/2006 07:29

So sad for you YorkieGirl, it must have been such an awful shock for you and your beautiful girls - you do seem to be coping marvellously but I think when things first happen we do tend to go into mother coping mode - its when all the messages and support die down (which I know they won't on here) that things come and smack you in the face again - so although you may think you don't need it now please organise in the near future to see someone who will be able to help you with the grieving process and make you see that everything you will be feeling is entirley normal in such an awful situation.

YOUR GIRLS ARE ABSOLUTLEY BEAUTIFUL.

Twinkie XXX

WishICouldGiveUpWork · 16/08/2006 08:24

Second time I have seen this montage and the girls are as gorgeous as ever.
I know it probably sounds pretty hoolw right now but Nigel lives on in and through both of them.
Keep thinking of you and just wishing I could take your pain away......

Bugsy2 · 16/08/2006 09:18

YG, your girls are so gorgeous. They obviously had a wonderful Daddy. Thinking of you.

FoghornLeghorn · 16/08/2006 09:23

What beautiful girls YorkieGirl - absolutely love the pic of one of them in blue baseball cap, it's lovely.
I hope things are going as well as can be expected and you are getting lots of practical help and support.
Thinking of you as always x

Lemmingswife · 16/08/2006 09:25

Your montage of your gorgeous girls has made me cry, yorkiegirl. They are beautiful.
Thinking of you so much.xxxxx

Gingerbear · 16/08/2006 09:32

Yorkie, your girls are beautiful, they are lovely little people. Much love, Gingerxx

Imafairy · 16/08/2006 09:39

Anna - that's a beautiful montage, and it's made me cry for you and your beautiful girls again.
You are in my thoughts......

cyan · 16/08/2006 09:41

yorkiegirl> my thoughts are with you and your beautiful daughters. cyan x

LucyJu · 16/08/2006 09:53

Thinking of you, and your beautiful girls.

melrose · 16/08/2006 11:29

Your girls are absolutely beautiful and will no doubt be a great strength to you in the coming weeks.

I know it sounds like an odd thing to do, but get someone to take photos of the funeral, it will help the children to understand in the future. Someone I know was advised to do this for her children when their father died and said it was a great help afterwards yon exlain to them what had happened that day

dazzlincaz · 16/08/2006 12:00

Thinking of you and your dds, Yorkiegirl. The montage is lovely, thank you for sharing it here. {{{HUGS}}}

Nemo1977 · 16/08/2006 12:21

YG sophie and alex are beautiful happy little girls who are a credit to yourself and nigel.

love and hugs
xxxxxxxxxx

Caribbeanqueen · 16/08/2006 12:22

Such gorgeous little girls. Thinking of you all xx

Lio · 16/08/2006 12:24

So sad for you YG. Big strong thoughts to you and the girls, do let us know if there is something practical we can do collectively or individually.