TERRIBLE NEWS FROM YORKIEGIRL

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Yorkiegirl has phoned me from holiday in Portugal; her husband Nigel has collapsed and died tonight.
She thinks it was a stroke or heart attack.
The authorities are trying to get hold of her parents - they are also in Portugal
Fortunately, neither of her DDs saw anything
I don't know much more than that but will post if I have anything else

im so sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with her and her dd's at this sad and difficult time

so sorry to hear this yorkiegirl,this has stuck with me since the post&has realy shook me,i feel for you&your family,im sending lots of love(((((hugs))))

so so sorry to read this yorkiegirl, if there is anything at all 'we' can do, you've only to ask. thinking of you all xxx

Yorkiegirl, my deepest sympathies to you, your daughters and extended family.

OMG, I am sooo sorry. Deepest sympathies with you Yorkiegirl

Have only just seen this Yorkiegirl, please accept my condolances, you and your girls are in our thoughts and prayers.

YG, my heart goes out to you. This is so tragic and there are not any words that will make it better. Look after yourself, you will need to be strong in the coming months.

This awful thing happened to my husband's best friend, he was 49.

Our love and prayers go out to you and your girls. Take care.

Pindy X

Thinking of you, and wishing you strength. Love to you and your girls.

cutting and pasting this message from Yorkiegirl:

We fly home on Sunday night. Nigel will be flown home later in the week. I am ok atm as I have to keep going. The girls are fine, both have cried for Daddy but I have managed to appease them so far.
Speak to you all when I get home.

YG I am so sorry to read this

Sending love and prayers to you all

love RTKM xxxxxx

what an awful thing to happen, love to you and your family, x.

So shocked and so sorry. The same happened to a friend of mine's dh when in spain about 15 years ago. Even worse- in those days kids went on parent's passports and her dds were on her husbands - endless red tape.

Sorry - not very eloquent - by even worse I meant as if it could have been any worse.
You sound so strong - I can't imagine how you must be feeling.

Oh no poor Yorkiegirl

Thinking you and your family xx

I'm so very very very sorry Yorkiegirl. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

What terrible news. You and your dds will be in my thoughts and prayers. xx

YG, how dreadful for you. I am so sorry for your loss. I send lots of love and prayers to you and your girls xx

This is awful. It must've been such a shock to YG and family. Thinking of you.

Have just come back from the Lakes today so have only just seen this. YG, I can't begin to tell you how very sorry I am - my thoughts are with you at this dreadful time. Much love xxx

YG, you are still very much in my thoughts - in all our thoughts.

A former colleague lost her partner not long after their dd was born. She found this small support group really helpful:

WIDWODS
c/o 60 Rocks Park
Uckfield
East Sussex TN22 2AX
(01825) 765084 (evenings)
Small support group of young widows aiming to provide practical and emotional support for those who experience the loss of a partner. Please include a stamped addressed envelope.

This was a couple of years ago now so I hope the address is still current. WIDWODS don't have their own website.

Lots of love XXX

Yorkiegirl, my thoughts are with you and your dd's.

Take care XXX

YG - you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers and I hope that one day your happy memories will become more powerful than your sadness and grief.

So sorry YG - lots of love

Dearest YG! I am so incredibly sorry that this has happened! I remember that day in Gingerbread Cottage we met for the first time - and your lovely daughters....I am just sorry we never got to see more of each other!! Thinking of you all sooo much!