Could do with some hand-holding please?

[ChubbyKitty]

Horrific accident in my parents house. Mum and grandad have both gone, dad is stable, and only found one of three cats.

I'm 21, I did not expect to lose my mum this soon at all. It hasn't even sunk in properly yet, and I know when it does I will be completely destroyed. What do I even do

[ChubbyKitty]

He has. He also had one of the cats, she moved today. It was strange coming home from work and not being jumped all over!

I don't think work is helping at all. Sometimes I almost burst into tears and have to excuse myself to the bathroom for a few minutes.

[mummylin2495]

Oh it will be a good job when you get out of there, you need a clean break with a new start. But you mustn't push yourself too hard. You have been through a massive trauma and although you may think your ok, your probably not, your bursting into tears is a natural thing, that is what grief does, you can be perfectly fine then something just happens or you think something and it upsets you. I was like that myself last weekend when I heard the song we had at my mums funeral on X factor , I just sat here in tears and for me it's 22 months.! You are perfectly normal and tears are healing better to let t out than keep,it all inside you.

[mummylin2495]

Hi chubby, hope you are doing ok. Are you sleeping better than you were now ? Have you had your cuddle with that little baby yet ? They change and grow so quickly before you know it they are going to school ! Chat soon

[ChubbyKitty]

Urrrgh thread vanished

[mummylin2495]

Had the same problem chubby , it sort of dropped off the radar. Didnt think I would be on mn at all tonight as MN been so slow, apparently the site was near crash point !
Anyway , how are you getting on now you are further down the line ?
No word from Asda I spose, bloody rude if they don't even reply.