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I cant help it, I need you lot, dp died yesterday, I cant stop seeing it, it hurts so much

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TrinityRhino · 11/05/2013 08:40

everything hurts, I cant close my eyes without seeing it happening
he collapsed at home
I did chest compressions till the ambulance came
they tried for ages but he was gone
I cant stop seeing it
my arms hurt, my heart hurts
I'm exhausted
I cant do this again

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crazynanna · 13/05/2013 12:54

I think myself and all that are offering to help really want to,Trin. I know I feel a bit helpless over here Sad Please let us give you a little hand here. It's not a lot,really.

StealthOfficialCrispTester · 13/05/2013 12:56

You're doing fine. It is still so recent.
I think that's wise - not sure what CeX are, but is that any good?
I'd happily send you DH's dusty, nasty old playstation ONE (and tell him I dropped it in the bath) but I wouldn't inflict it on someone else!

HesterShaw · 13/05/2013 12:59

I think you're doing amazingly actually. But even if you weren't that would be fine x

EduCated · 13/05/2013 13:03

It's ok, we know that you weren't asking for people to buy one. Will keep an ear and an eye out should I spot one going.

mummylin2495 · 13/05/2013 13:10

It's ok we know you weren't asking, but we all feel so helpless to do anything for you and this is something we could do.and if anyone has anything nasty to say, well stuff them !

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 13/05/2013 13:24

I know you weren't asking.
I would be so pleased to contribute to anything that would help you at the moment, and a lot of people here feel the same.
My son might know someone with XBox, I'll ask him tonight.

BeerTricksPotter · 13/05/2013 13:30

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D0oinMeCleanin · 13/05/2013 13:53

Anyone with more than one brain cell to rub together can see you were not asking for anything. Others shouldn't be allowed near a keyboard unsupervised.

Thumbwitch · 13/05/2013 14:04

Absolutely what Beer and Dooin said. We KNOW you were asking for help to find one to buy. We KNOW that you weren't asking for handouts, we all KNOW that. Except for a few posters who need to have a bit of a compassion transplant, that is. :(

PeachActiviaMinge · 13/05/2013 14:13

Trinity sweetheart I am so so very sorry my heart hurts for you and your little ones. Be good t yourselves and please ignore the people making more of a simple question than it was xx

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TrinityRhino · 13/05/2013 14:16

his mate has got back to him
its working and he wants 30 pound for it which is totally doable
dd2 is ever so excited

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fuzzpig · 13/05/2013 14:17

Don't worry Trinity we aren't thinking anything badly of you.

You are so strong, doing brilliantly, your girls are lucky to have you xxx

fuzzpig · 13/05/2013 14:18

that's great news trin :) hope she enjoys her minecraft and it provides some comfort (and some sisterly bonding as they discuss their worlds!) in this difficult time xxx

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RoomForASmallOne · 13/05/2013 14:20
Smile

Glad you have got DD2 her own console and I hope it distracts her.

Thinking of you Trinity x

McKayz · 13/05/2013 14:30

Beer and D0oin are right. Everyone knows you weren't asking for anything other than a bit of help in finding one.

Really pleased you got one.

Thinking of you x

BehindLockNumberNine · 13/05/2013 14:36

Oh No Trinity Sad
Sending hugs to you and yours.

Another old-timer here who had to check the date of the post. I just cannot believe this has happened to you again.

You are doing well, hang in there. I am so glad you have so much support.
Thinkikng of you xx

JugglingFromHereToThere · 13/05/2013 14:45

Just what *fuzzpig^ said.
Glad your girls have found something to do through these long, difficult days.
Hope you have some continued support in RL as well as on here, and glad some Mumsnetters have been with you too.
How are you all doing today ? x

Charleymouse · 13/05/2013 15:16

Trinity just checking in to see how you are getting on and see you are getting some RL support as well as virtual handholding.

Glad to see you are eating and sleeping.

I checked out your pics of DP and the girls and they are lovely. You all look so happy and he and the girls obviously adore each other. Wear your beautiful ring with pride and feel DPs love which it was bought with.

Nothing to add from previous posters just wanted you to know you are in peoples thoughts and prayers and virtual hugs are being sent from all aound the globe. Much love CM xxx

ExitPursuedByABear · 13/05/2013 15:28

What a beautiful ring Trin, and what lovely happy photos.

How are you doing?

EduCated · 13/05/2013 15:45

Glad you found one Smile Anything that brings them even the slightest touch of comfort can only be good right now.

PacificDogwood · 13/05/2013 16:16

A bit of escapeism will do your DD2 the world of good.
You are doing amazingly well, being able to consider such practicalities as a 2nd console just now - I am glad you'll get one for not too much.
Minecraft is a bit of an obsession here too - personally, I don't get it, but hey ho.

Have you found anything to distract yourself with? Even just temporarily? Wishing you peace and strength.

MelodyBaker · 13/05/2013 16:34

Your still in my thoughts x

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TrinityRhino · 13/05/2013 16:35

my friend who arrived yesterday has had to leave
she is terribly allergic to dogs
and her inhalers aren't helping
she contacted her doctors and they advised her to leave Sad

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