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Love, like starlight, never dies... Our precious children sparkling in the sky xx

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CazandBelle · 28/06/2011 11:13

"Small was feeling grim and dark. He was playing toss and fling and bang and crash. Break and snap and bash and batter. Small said ?I?m a grim and grumpy little small and nobody loves me at all?. ?Oh Small,? said Large. ?Grumpy or not, I?ll always love you no matter what.?

Small said, ?If I was a grizzly bear would you still love me would you still care?? ?Of course,? said Large ?bear or not, I?ll always love you no matter what.?

Small said ?But if I turned into a bug, would you still love me and give me a hug?? ?Of course,? said Large ?bug or not, I?ll always love you no matter what.?

?No matter what?? said Small, and smiled, ?What if I was a crocodile?? Large said ?I?d hug you close and hold you tight and tuck you up in bed at night?.
?Does love wear out? said Small, ?does it break or bend? Can you fix it, stick it, does it mend?? ?Oh help,? said Large ?I?m not that clever I just know I?ll love you forever?.

Small said ?but what about when you?re dead and gone, would you love me then, does love go on?? Large held Small snug as they looked out at the night, at the moon in the dark and the stars shining bright.

?Small look at the stars ? how they shine and glow, but some of those stars died a long time ago. Still they shine in the evening skies. Love, like starlight, never dies?.

NO MATTER WHAT by Debi Gliori

Missing my beautiful Belle, a year to the day we placed her to bed in her garden. Mummy and Daddy love you, always. To the moon and back xxx

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spilttheteaagain · 12/10/2011 18:38

No news from caz yet? Thinking of her lots, I hope he's out soon, I wouldn't wish a multi day labour on anyone!

janedoe25 · 12/10/2011 18:43

Hi feedmenow a huge thank you from me for starting this thread, I may not post much but it has been a complete lifesaver for me over the past 7 months.

chip what a lovely dream Smile.

spilttheteaagain · 12/10/2011 18:44

chip I heard about your daughter from MrsArch who I was on another antenatal thread with - she is gutted for you. I read about Sylvie-Rose on your Nov thread and was so moved by your story. What a special little girl, and how well you all coped with her prematurity and the time in NICU. I can't believe how cruel it is that you'd got through the hospital bit and then this tradgedy, but at the same time, those few days at home must have been very precious. So sorry x

frasersmummy · 12/10/2011 19:38

no walking under palm trees fmn!!!!

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 12/10/2011 19:54

Lovely to see you FMN. Your explanation of grief is spot on for me, I totally understand what you are saying. Glad to hear dd3 is well Smile

Hope you're ok Caz

DawnOfTheDeementedDead · 12/10/2011 20:39

Thank you for all the good wishes today, folks - they really really worked Smile

Baby is absolutely fine and there are no concerns about renal or bladder problems at all, which is a huge relief.

I do have to go back in a couple of weeks to be rescanned as baby wouldn't cooperate very well with some measurements, but all in all i'm very happy Smile

Bluetinkerbell · 12/10/2011 20:53

Dee sssssssssssssssssssssssssso happy for you Grin

no news from Caz yet.. come on Xander, we can't wait any longer!

spilttheteaagain · 12/10/2011 20:54

Congratulations dee that's fantastic. Did you find out the flavour or not? Hope you can have a nice celebratory evening x

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 12/10/2011 20:54

Hurrah Dee, am so chuffed for you?

Do you know if it's a pink or blue flavour?

shabbapinkfrog · 12/10/2011 20:56

Pink or Blue????? LOL - not that Im nosey or anything you understand Smile

Bluetinkerbell · 12/10/2011 20:57

oh yeah Dee almost forgot, come on spill the beans Wink boy or girl? we won't tell anyone... promise Grin

CheeseandGherkins · 12/10/2011 20:57

dee that's good to hear, really pleased for you :) Did you find out the sex? x

DawnOfTheDeementedDead · 12/10/2011 21:00
Grin

Yes... we found out.

It's

A

.......

DawnOfTheDeementedDead · 12/10/2011 21:01

.....

shabbapinkfrog · 12/10/2011 21:02

Swine!!! ROFL. xxxx

DawnOfTheDeementedDead · 12/10/2011 21:06

If i spill you have to swear not to say anything on Facebook as i have family on there i won't be telling til she is born... Wink

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 12/10/2011 21:08

Ha ha, I like what you did there!

Many many congratulations, my lips are sealed!

shabbapinkfrog · 12/10/2011 21:12

No problem Dee - Grin

janedoe25 · 12/10/2011 21:16

fantastic news dee! come on now spill the flavour!

Gosh this thread has been busy today! I have just donated Zoe's moses basket to the maternity unit she was born on. My midwife friend has just came to collect it. I feel so sad that it will be used for babies who are too good for earth. Sad

janedoe25 · 12/10/2011 21:19

Ah cross post dee! congratulations! Grin

CheeseandGherkins · 12/10/2011 21:20

Congratulations Dee :)

chipmonkey · 12/10/2011 22:24

Wonderful news, dee!

Whatevertheweather · 12/10/2011 22:35

Ah yay that's wonderful news Dee. Hope you are having a relaxing evening after your busy day.

Just got back from our first sands meeting. It was a really nice group of people and it was good just for 2 hours not to be the odd ones out or the saddest people in the room

DawnOfTheDeementedDead · 13/10/2011 06:47

Thanks again all. We really are delighted - we would have been just as happy with the other sex, but hopefully DD won't feel so outnumbered now, though she is a little bit of a madam so i can't help but wonder how she'll feel about not being the only girl anymore Smile

I'm glad your meeting went well, WTW - it's nice sometimes to find people who you don't have to explain anything to, who just 'get it'.

Janedoe - How lovely of you to donate Zoe's moses basket. I'm sure it will be very much appreciated.

Hope everyone else is ok today - much love to all x

shabbapinkfrog · 13/10/2011 06:49

Morning girls xx

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