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To ask where you would fly for a long weekend?

131 replies

icircleyouuuuuu · Yesterday 17:01

Saturday to Monday so truly a flying visit. Flying from the southwest.

OP posts:
Greedybilly · Yesterday 21:58

@NewNewYork- blimey calm down. We're all just trying to do our bit ( well most of us) arent we?.Sounds like you need a holiday. Scotland's nice at this time of year.

thatwasclose · Yesterday 21:59

Isle of Man.

NewNewYork · Yesterday 22:41

notwhingingjuststatingfacts · Yesterday 21:35

Hahahaha you can think that if you wish dear!!! My god I’ve touched a nerve haven’t I. 🤣🤣🤣

You know fuck all about me or why I don’t feel being vegan is remotely healthy or ethical. You know fuck all about my diet or how much effort I do or do not go to. I’ve already said the last holiday I have was more than 5 years ago.

But no it isn’t ok to decide to fly somewhere for the hell of it for a weekend and contribute more carbon and more emissions. The OP is asking for suggestions as to where she goes - not because she has any pressing desire to go somewhere specific. She already has had multiple holidays this year and has more planned. So yes I am within my rights to question whether or not it’s necessary and to remind her of the current global climate crisis. I do not have to be perfect in order to do so.

Course I don't know, because you can't explain.

notwhingingjuststatingfacts · Yesterday 22:43

NewNewYork · Yesterday 22:41

Course I don't know, because you can't explain.

of course I can explain. But I don’t wish to derail this thread. If you want to start a thread you’re welcome!

NewNewYork · Yesterday 22:44

Greedybilly · Yesterday 21:58

@NewNewYork- blimey calm down. We're all just trying to do our bit ( well most of us) arent we?.Sounds like you need a holiday. Scotland's nice at this time of year.

I do need a holiday, and I need people to focus on the OPs actual question like a grown up instead of using it as any opportunity to divert the topic around to preach about whatever their current self righteous personal project is; in this case, the state of the world and how OP needs to fix it by not going on holiday abroad.

NewNewYork · Yesterday 22:45

notwhingingjuststatingfacts · Yesterday 22:43

of course I can explain. But I don’t wish to derail this thread. If you want to start a thread you’re welcome!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You, quote, "don't want to derail this thread" after not helping answer OP at all.smd using her question as a platform to preach your own values.

Fantastic 👏👏 I needed a laugh

JaceLancs · Yesterday 22:47

Krakow, Prague, Budapest, Malaga

quintessentially166 · Yesterday 22:51

Some of my fav:

Bratislavia
Stockholm
Riga
Lisbon
Barcelona

notwhingingjuststatingfacts · Yesterday 22:57

NewNewYork · Yesterday 22:45

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You, quote, "don't want to derail this thread" after not helping answer OP at all.smd using her question as a platform to preach your own values.

Fantastic 👏👏 I needed a laugh

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I did answer her question. You just don’t like the answer I gave because it has hit a nerve with you. I guess you know that your own contribution to climate change is a negative one. So you would rather undermine me than confront your own issues.

Franxi · Yesterday 23:02

What’s your closest airport? See where they fly too and pick the one that has the airport closest to the centre. You don’t want to spend your time on transfers. AI is pretty good for this. Put in where you want to go, maximum travel time, and what you like doing.

PennyPugwash · Yesterday 23:21

Op, you don’t need to get the train to Scotland. You could just fly, I usually do. Edinburgh is amazing this time of year.

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PurpleFlower1983 · Yesterday 23:28

Berlin, Lisbon, Budapest

Defender90 · Yesterday 23:29

Fly to Alicante enjoy there, or, Benidorm (trust me the old town is gorgeous) Altea. Krakow. Vienna, Berlin.

TheMadGardener · Yesterday 23:32

Berlin from Bristol, I went last month

Sixpence39 · Yesterday 23:58

notwhingingjuststatingfacts · Yesterday 20:16

If few enough people flew then the flight wouldn’t be scheduled. Your argument is completely nonsensical airlines work on supply and demand. If there was no demand there wouldn’t be anywhere near the number of flights.

To answer your questions no I haven’t flown on over 16 years. I’m not vegan - I don’t believe being vegan is remotely healthy either for humans or for the planet. I am not perfect I drive a car and do more miles than I would like - 90% of my mileage is work related. I last had a holiday in 2021 - in the Uk. I am self employed and do what I can and source actively source locally made and sustainable materials wherever possible.
So yes I do my bit!

It doesnt matter if you dont "believe" vegan is healthy or good for the planet. What matters is the science and a plant based diet is listed by climate scientists as one of the most impactful things, even above stopping flying and is also supported by the leading nutrition body in the Uk as safe for every stage of life, and has many well documented benefits including longevity. You shouldn't be lecturing people if you're not able to look at the science when it doesnt suit you and just go off "vibes" instead, which is the exact thing these short term flyers are doing.

angelcake20 · Today 00:05

What do you like doing on holiday? History, museums, wandering round pretty towns, eating/drinking? How important are budget and weather? So many places to choose from. I’ve not looked at where you can fly to from the southwest (we’re London) but, ignoring Italy, and anywhere that I think needs more than two days, consider Seville, Nuremberg, Bremen, Hamburg, Leiden (from Amsterdam), Poznan, Tallinn, Cologne, Salzburg, Vilnius, Valencia, Rotterdam, Dubrovnik, Porto, Geneva.

SeraphinaRainbird · Today 00:09

Amsterdam or Gibraltar.

Yellowcakestand · Today 00:14

Madrid is one of my favourites.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · Today 00:22

Copenhagen

notwhingingjuststatingfacts · Today 00:41

Sixpence39 · Yesterday 23:58

It doesnt matter if you dont "believe" vegan is healthy or good for the planet. What matters is the science and a plant based diet is listed by climate scientists as one of the most impactful things, even above stopping flying and is also supported by the leading nutrition body in the Uk as safe for every stage of life, and has many well documented benefits including longevity. You shouldn't be lecturing people if you're not able to look at the science when it doesnt suit you and just go off "vibes" instead, which is the exact thing these short term flyers are doing.

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I am prepared to look at the science. I have and I make my choices. I am not a vegan and never will be. I choose to eat a diet that is local to me not avocados and vegan food flown halfway round the planet. I make conscious choices every day about where my food comes from.

But that is not the point. If we all do what we can then every little bit adds up. None of have to be perfect. We just have to be doing what we can do. I’m not even suggesting not going on holiday at all. I’m suggesting not going on holiday for the sake of it. To a destination you have no great desire to see. The OP has had numerous other holidays abroad this year. She doesn’t have any great desires to go to any of the places suggested. She just wants to get away. There are plenty of amazing places to see at home in the Uk. She doesn’t have to fly. That’s all

icircleyouuuuuu · Today 07:23

PennyPugwash · Yesterday 23:21

Op, you don’t need to get the train to Scotland. You could just fly, I usually do. Edinburgh is amazing this time of year.

But when you look at how much it costs it’s basically the same as a trip abroad ☹️ Edinburgh has always been on my list.

To be honest I just want a weekend away, but uk breaks are just too expensive for what they are.

OP posts:
Dancingspleen1 · Today 07:36

FromaBubblegumTree · Yesterday 17:48

How many short haul flights have been cancelled as a result of you not booking a ticket?

I don't get the snarky comments to people that highlight there is a real problem with climate crisis. People that are aware of the issue, taking it seriously and taking personal responsibility to do what they can, however small. Unfortunately the majority are ignoant or don't care but why put someone down that does?
We will all be forced to change our lifestyles eventually - that's not an if, just a when. I hope the people that rolled your eyes and yawned all remember how you mocked others for caring.

BewareOfTheFakes · Today 17:31

icircleyouuuuuu · Yesterday 21:42

Not sure it would work for just two days?

It’s chaotic but oh my god you’ll want to do it again if you do it. We’ve done Friday to Sunday…still my kids favourite holiday and they’ve been a few places.

FromaBubblegumTree · Today 17:37

@Dancingspleen1

I wasn't being snarky, putting anybody down, mocking or eye-rolling.

It was a genuine question.

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